Are you able to do it with someone on a regular basis? What do you do in the meantime? Im into Sex and not really into guys. My experiences have been limited, since I first had my first encounter. My good buddy, in the same boat, is away often, so , on occasion my wife will put on the strapon and make me play a cock hungry cum slut. I enjoy letting loose and going for it all and impressing her with my ability to deep throat and riding her cock. As far as Cum, she enjoys watching me take my big ejaculations, especially on my own face and in my mouth. I get to enjoy most of the associated pleasures of a Bi experience, except the reality of it.. Are you able to satisfy your needs and desires on a regular basis.? What do you do to fill the gap?
On a regular basis? No but I've always been like this: When I need dick, I go get dick. In the meantime? There's sex with my lady, of course.
I would be able to satisfy myself more with men if I wasn’t as picky as I am. I prefer to have just one fwb but that’s difficult to come up with. There have been times when I have had it and it’s great being able schedule being together. Then I have a dry spell and in the search for another regular I wind up having sex with more guys than I thought I would searching for a new guy friend. I also settle for masturbating more often during those dry spells.
I would say that I am lucky enough to have a fair amount of sex. I meet up with several different guys regularly, at different intervals - nothing regular or consistent - sometimes we are able to meet up - sometimes there is a gap in between. Since I have more than one regular buddy, it works out OK. This week has been dry but it's not because I couldn't have had sex with someone - it was just other circumstances that prevented it. The weekend before last, I went away for the weekend to a Bear gathering two hours east of home- I had a great time, met a lot of great men, and had some good sex with two different men while I was there. There was a lot of freedom of expression because most of us were away from home and the setting was such that we were all letting our guards down to have some fun. There is nobody serious in my life - there are times I feel very alone and lonely. The sex I have is usually good - sometimes it is utterly amazing - and it is a good distraction, and it keeps me active, and it keeps the old man in me away. Would I wish there was someone special who would snuggle with me while we watch a movie? Sure, I'd like that. I also like my freedom. I also like that more than one guy wants to get naked with me - that feels pretty good, too. I like to have a good time. I think I am pretty lucky. I know I am pretty lucky actually - no, there are no ladies in my life. No chances for that, it seems. I see my family -regularly - my ex-wife and I get along OK. My grandchildren are still little kids so they are fun to be with. Time has a way of slipping away. I try to enjoy it as much as possible and with as much variety as possible, too.
We all have to live our lives as best we can, while we still can. Whatever rocks your boat ,at our age , keeps us young at heart and spirit.
