argggggggg boys suck

At first I was laughin my ass of at spooner thinkin' he mighta been a little harsh. Then I looked at your gallery. He makes a good point. WTF are you doing with pictures like that? You bring this crap on yourself.

As a matter of fact you fit the profile of a cop. 17 years old, posting revealing pictures, and looking for an older guy.

My comment about 'you actually need a gay guy' was my way of telling you that all guys want to get in girls pants...at least the ones that aren't gay.

If you actually want real advise...take the pics down and stop acting like a whore. Also don't give it up until you have dated the guy 3 months. No sexual release for him until the 3 month point.

 

geez you guys aree so mean , i guess thats the power of the internet,just becuse i show my body makes me a whore, you have no idea how much we need guys to think we are attractive, so when we act as sexy as the girls they oggle we are called whores, now do you see what i mean by i hate BOYS and want a real man that doesnt assume that im a whore by a picture of me. by calling me names without even getting to know me shows how imature boys you are. so the next time your girlfriend (if you have one) gets sexy for you please by all means call her a whore.

 

It dosent make you a whore, but it gives off a strong first impression.
that impression is damn shes hot
Therefor I want to get in her pants...

 

I for one am not calling you a whore, whatever that means.

I understand the pressure to be thought attractive. A lot of guys also feel pressure...their self-worth feels tied to getting women in bed. Women are called whores; men are called dogs.

So...seems like we have a zero-sum dynamic here. What are we to do about it as individuals? What are we really after?

Is it feeling attractive? Is it sex? Or is it something else?

 

You know what is funny?


Men encourage the behavior in women that they will later condemn. But the same goes for women.

Men want women to be provocative or promiscuous only to call them whores.

Women encourage men to see them as sexual objects only to call them dogs.

THAT WAY......we can continue playing this game of hating each other while actually craving understanding.

 

i understand where you are coming from. Most girls at your age feel that way. I always felt that I couldnt find a girl who was serious about relationships. But hey, you are blessed with an absolutley MIND-BLOWING body. Holy shit, looking at your profile made me drool.. You can't blame guys for wanting that. But hey you deserve respect. Good luck. And hey im two years older, wanna get together. :drool: :H :H Lol. No no im not like that . Peace and love girlie/

 

If she poats pictures like that of herself, I will. Then I'll leave her for a more respectable woman.

 

That was me being as kind as I get, hun. If I wasn't so blinded by low self-esteem radiating from your posts, I might have laughed more.

But you're missing the point - guys are going to pidgeon-hole you, just like all people do all people. Guys looking for easy lays go to nightclubs. They go after drunk girls. They go after girls showing lots of skin. Guys looking for girlfriends tend to look for other things. So if you want guys to look at you like a girlfriend rather than a whore, well start acting like a girlfriend.

But I don't know you, so take it for what you will.

 

So sorry to disappoint.

 

I can appreciate wanting to feel sexy, but ass cheeks hanging out of a tiny outfit screams "DO ME!" If you want to pull off "sexy and mature" I suggest more clothes and a sultry look. Sometimes what you don't show is more appealing than what you do.

Older guys will treat you the same way unless you change what you do to feel sexy. Be more seductive, and less "see what I got!" Trust me, a 20 something is just as horny as any teenager when they have a hot new toy to play with. It isn't just about age.

 

ok so this guy at school , i kinda like asked me out to dinner this friday, ok i need really good advice , how do i do "sultry",and not "do me" and dont laugh , whats sultry?

 

sultry is more lauren bacall (look her up) than christina aguillera. cover more skin, leave something to the imagination. look, by your age, i'd been having sex for 3 years with my boyfriend. i'm not here to judge you. just don't dress slutty. dress beautiful.