Are You getting enough?????

I ain't getting none.

 

i have sex maybe once a month and its usually all about the guy. loads of fun..

 

I can never get enough either, don't be sorry though

 

Sunday is just the day for it.

 

My sex life used to be OK, but my long time wife died of lung cancer 2 1/2 years ago and I haven't had so much as a hug in about 4 years.


No, not getting any is certianly not enough.:&

 

I'm sorry to hear that you have had such tragedy in your life. I hope that your life works out to be good till the end.

Yeah - none is not enough. Some would be good. A lot would be almost enough and too much would be just perfect.

 

Well, I do have the occasional 'orgy', which I prefer to call 'group'. My gf and I hook up whenever we can , but we have very different schedules and lifestyles.

I also consider masturbation to be a viable sexual activity - let's face it, in a female same-sex relationship its all you CAN do, and though I don't mind masturbating a guy, or performing oral, I don't do penetration. So having said all that - My entire sex life is one form of masturbation, or oral sex, or another.

My alone time includes a LOT of masturbation, and I consider it time well spent. Would I rather have a partner? - Not always. Cyber, what I call chatsturbation, is a lot of fun too. At least you know there are two of you, even if you're not sure the other person really got off.

And the whole marriage thing. If you're married, and you have an open relationship such as YellowBellyHippie does, that's great. You really have to me more secure in your relationship to do that than not do it. Religious vows aside, marriage is an agreement, a contract. That contract is more on the emotional and financial plane than the physical. If you get married with monogamy in both of your minds, than that is certainly how it should remain, but if you have other partners in mind, then that should be clear.

I am in a committed relationship, and we BOTH have other partners. So for us it isn't the sex that keeps us together, its what we feel for each other when we're together.

 

Casey, I'm VERY sorry to hear about your wife.

Because of your long love with your wife, sex will probably always be connected with your feelings for her.

Some people never want to move on. I don't think my Mom ever even wanted to touch another man after my Dad died.

Others are able to find love and happiness again. I'm told that It's different, and you still love your former spouse. But I always smile when I see a couple that has found love.

I hope that you are able to find what is right for you.

 

And... on the subject of the poll:

I don't think it's possible to get enough! I'd always want more.

My GF is almost always ready to go, so I voted that way, but we only get to spend time together on the weekends. Most days I would love to skip work to stay home and play all day. Every day.

<== old but still horny!

 

no orgies... but the sex is absolutely incredible

 

I'm happy with at least once a day. And time is getting close...

Peace and love

 

I'm certainly not getting it enough, I'm single, and I don't care for many one-night stands.

 

No! i can count on one hand how many time i've had sex in the past three months... I'm going crazy!:&

 

earthmomma, if only I lived closer to you

 

Once or twice a day.

 

I'm not gettin any and I'm not happy about it. However, I'm glad for all of you who are gettin some. Peace

 

no, not enough only like 3 times a week. need every day

 

Terrible.

 

Hell no I'm not getting enough! It's freaking depressing...

 

It isn't surprising that the vast majority are not getting enough. We live in a bourgeois Christian society with tremendous gender barriers and puritan superstitions and anxieties concerning sex and the body. Not your place for romance!