insanejester, you sound like my boyfriend. He's always saying he's overworked (which is true), but I don't think that word exists in my sexual vocabulary. I'm like a rabbit, I wish I could get control over myself but, oh well, God gave me hands for a reason so I make use of them in those dire situations.
My boyfriend and I usually do it AT LEAST once a day, but hell, if we had the time, we'd probably do it more. And we usually fool around in between the romps. Plenty of pleasure for all, but I swear that boy has turned me into a nymphomaniac!
Two months ago, my wife announced that she was divorcing me and walked out, so no, I'm not getting enough. I'm not getting any. I'm more than slightly certain that she has--at least once, as a symbolic ritual--and can choose from among several guys currently drooling on the sidelines anytime she wants to. For the first year of our relationship (when we lived together, right up until we were married), we made love at least five days a week. Sometimes seven days a week. Sometimes as often as three times a day. That was enough. That was wonderful. Right now, I'm going "damnity-damn-damn," because all I can really do is think about it, talk about it, and wank. I'm on the rebound, and I know it. Not a good time to get involved with anyone, no matter how horny I am. Once that period is finally over, slender, small-breasted smokers will receive preferential treatment. Sorry, no pets. The two cats I have are enough.
I think it is obvious that the assholes of the world are getting the power, getting the money and getting laid on a more regular basis than hippies. WTF happened to the new age?
Sorry I was placing over your situation how my situations standing. My wife isn't a hippy, but like yours as soon as I moved outa there she allegedly had a guy move right on in. A long story, I don't know 4 sure, probably never will, just another little war waged on my confidence.
That has happened to me. I ended a 10 yr relationship....last November. We were not married. He replaced me 1 month after I moved out. The house we shared just sold. I'm starting all over again at 44.