are you attractive?

I'm questioning this myself..
Edit: About him, not me!

 

we met last semester. its just a "clothing optional" situation. they're open minded, as am i. people think nudity or toplessness is sexy because they're conditioned to think in such a manner. i happen to realize there is nothing inherently sexy about it. which doesnt mean i dont occasionally take a good look, but its not like i stare or get worked up about it or leer or anything.

they are both in devoted, long term monogamous relationships and i understand that. i'm nice to them and do not make them uncomfortable. i may look once in a while, but i dont stare. we've gotten kind of close, but its more just that i dont act like an ass, and at least one of them is of the opinion (which i share) that breasts are simply another body part, like hands or ears. nothing really that special about them.

idk. i'd be far more fascinated with their tits if i was sleeping with them, but i'm not and wont (at least, not in the foreseeable future) cause as i said they're both in long term closed relationships, and i like their boyfriends and i respect their boundaries.

 

That's probly because this is the skin you're used to seeing...

 

Actually he has a point, my bestfriends wife could walk around topless and it wouldn't faze me because she is personia non nookie.

 

damn dude, red fraggle is a hella sexy bitch. i like those pigtails.

if only she had a collar

 

I happen to find Hands very sexy. Seriously.

 

Kinky! lol Love it!

 

ARRGGGGGHHHHH i've actually had SEVERAL girls compliment my hands or my eyes....but i like things like curves of the neck so who am i to judge.

 

I have to call BS. Just cuz ya wouldn't jump her doesn't mean you weren't fazed. I've been a stripper for 2 years and even my married friends will sometimes oogle. They wouldn't TRY anything but most men ARE fazed by bare breasts.

 

hey, everyone likes something different.

i prefer girls with really short hair who can maintain femininity. most other hetero guys think i'm crazy.

not all, of course, but most.

 

You have a good point.

 

The curve of a woman's neck when viewed from behind. Like if she's moving her hair or somesuch. Now That I do find very sensual not quite what I would normally call sexy though, but close.

 

i find diffrent things sexy, i really REALLY like the way certian womens hips sway when they walk.

 

Eyes and hands are really nice on a guy, but i have to say i like if he has a smile that will catch you smiling.

 

most north american men.

no offense, but your experience as a dancer doesnt count for shit in this argument because the men going to see that are there because they DO want to see it, and because it IS in a sexual context.

now if i was at a strip club (never gone) then i bet i'd stare like anyone else. thats what i'd be there for, to just admire and soak in the beauty (hopefully. but i've heard things about some venues) of the female form, in a sexually charged atmosphere.

however, a woman just walking around doing everyday stuff who happens to not be wearing a shirt, might be slightly intriguing but only because its not something you see everyday. mowing the lawn, making some food, reading a book....this stuff isn't sexy, and breasts are just another body part. in fact, its nothing i dont have myself (though mine aren't nearly so large and pretty as those of a woman haha)

but eroticism is totally defined by the context. i dont find anything erotic about a topless woman mowing the lawn or reading or whatever.

 

:cheers2: Kudos to nesta though for being so open minded most men aren't. It's refreshing.

 

i have a forced smile most of the time, however i've been told that when a genwine (sp?) smile comes on it lights up my eyes and the rest of my face.... i think my friend that keeps saying this wants to do me.

 

I'll cheers to that!

 

i'll cheers to ANYTHING any excuse to drink.

 

I get your point... I should have been more specific. I meant at home. My friends don't come to the club. The stripper reference was more the idea that I am more aware I guess of when someone is not looking at "me"