I’m a total flirt with the ladies, in a man whore kind of way, lol. It doesn’t matter if Women initiate the flirting or it begins with me. Specifically, I’m either giving looks or getting them and someone has to be prepared to open the door or the opportunity is lost. Obviously, each scenario is going to vary but the overall structure is the same. To give a prime example, I have a co-worker who is a handsome dude and he gets lot’s of looks from women. The problem is that he’s extremely shy and to further complicate the issue, he’s afraid to take a risk. So, he rarely gets any numbers or hooks-ups. He’s always amazed that I get tons of numbers and have hot women around me. Almost in a jealous way, he asked me how I do it. I laughed and said “dude you gotta just grow a pair and not be afraid of getting shot down” ...I mean sometimes you’re just not going to vibe with a chick but so what. It’s a numbers game, the more irons I’m the fire the better your chances are. After a while, it just becomes second nature. You just have to be willing to take that first step. As long as you’re confident, polite and don’t come across as a mumbling fool, most women are flattered that you find them attractive even if they’re not wanting to hand over their digits. So my co-worker goes on to ask me, “do you ever get shot down”... I’m like, all the time bro. but for as many time as I get blown off, I’m pocketing as many digits. The moral of my long winded story is this ....dudes, don’t be scared to flirt and get good at it, you’ll thank me later. Cause if you don’t, you’ll be pissed at all the pussy you aren’t getting.
So am I your second favourite then Gal? Or 3rd or 4th or 5th or wherever? Am I in the running at all? Signed. Broken Hearted BoozercruiserXX
I flirt all the time. Sometimes i don't even realize I'm doing it. It just seems natural if I'm around someone I like or have a certain chemistry with. I'm a married gal but my husband knows me and that it doesn't mean anything unless we both want it to.