In my experience, being called a “flirt” may indicate that the accuser has low self-esteem. My first wife often accused me of being too flirtatious. Many examples, but in particular: she often became offended if I made eye contact with waitresses while ordering meals in restaurants…. So I kept my eyes on the menu while ordering my meals. I looked like a kook, but had to do it in order to keep peace.
You have an attractive and confident style yourself, … therefore a healthy self-esteem. Good for you, and your hubby.
I know this! But I do get rather jealous though. All these blokes wanting to have their wicked way with you! I hate them!
So...you go into a grocery store and ask the first woman you meet "When was the last time you had a mouth on your vagina?" You would not believe the train following you out of the store!!