sometimes i love to be touched and hugged and all that lovable shits, sometimes i am capable of sticking eyes out if somebody touch me. It all depends on the situation and most important the person that i`m cuddling with.
I suffer from some displaced general resentment toward women. But I'm fully aware of it, and I don't think it's directly related to the intimacy issue. The intimacy problem is tied to my fear of having my boundaries violated, and of disclosing myself for fear of being abandoned.
Yeah, abandonment issues can be tough. I've lived with those my whole life and had to work through them. Sounds like you have a pretty good awareness of yourself though.
It's still comforting to know that you exist. In an alternate life, you would fit me glove-in-hand, dream girl. :cheers2:
Maybe later. I'm off to bed and then taking a breather from HF for a while. There is a world outside. Yes there is........
i am. until i want to sleep. then you better get the fuck off of me. don't get me wrong, i adore cuddling and being close to someone i love and care about. but when we're lying down, and some parts of each of us are entangled, then some parts start going all numb from lack of circulation. i hate that. i'm good for cuddling on the couch. or before and after sex. or just because. but there is a limit, thats all.