are ribs sexy or something?

yeah, it's good. i've fallen in LOVE with a couple girls who were utterly and completely outside my "size ideal." when it comes to love, size doesn't mean a whole lot. it's the person. being a big girl, i get a lotta fat joke flack, sideways, from friends. it makes you awfully defensive. but the honest fact of the matter is, people will always tell you what you SHOULD be doing, and it get really fucking annoying. who do you take it out on, in a moment of weakness? the person that your loved one assumes you should look like. it's a vicious cycle.

 

yay
i think you pretty much described me :H
but i consider myself fat...i look at the scale, i look in a mirror, i see myself as fat
i need to lose weight

but i've always felt this way, i really don't know why
even before when i was smaller than i am now
i've grown into curves though, and i get told by all sorts of people that i'm sexy
i don't think it'll ever click in for me really
but i can fake confidence...and usually do

i actually feel really terrible about my weight today...cause of a guy...and another grl...thats shorter than me and skinner than me, and that in my mind makes her prettier than me...which may not be true..i don't know

i hate this whole obsession with beauty people have

i went from never being told i'm beautiful to being told it all the time, it's a complete mind fuck

 

if you change a fucking thing, i'm going to cut my throat. there's no hope left in this world for women who live if you change a fucking thing. BTW!!!!! what the FUCKING HELL is wrong with that guy?!!! hell, it's that whole taste thing. IT'S NOT YOU!!! it's him. if you have to change to suit someone, you're just lying.

 

Jesus, I missed pearls of wisdom like this while you had no computer.

 

oh, and you read that whole thing with that guy on f***b***. what? what i supposed to swoon because a high school guy thinks i look great more that 15 years later? pfft. i KNOW what i look like. i don't need him to tell me. don't settle. find that guy who treats you like a goddess, and his name will likely be dave.

 

Yes. Ribs are sexy. Especially when smothered in BBQ sauce.

Bigger girls are incredibly sexy. If they have a little belly to hold and don't have bony feet.

 

i was also with out my meds for a few days. i went full bitch crazy. it was wierd.

and that means so much more to me than being called pretty. that doesn't go away. unless you have alzheimers...hmm. anyway, wise is way cooler than pretty.

 

yeah but you know it goes both ways of course. youre not in the minority being on the bigger side in america, and im not either being thinner. So both sides give eachother crap.

i dunno, i just dont care, lol. I dont even give a shit, i'm not trying to marry a girl. As long as my guy thinks im fine as hell, heyyy i'm set. holla

 

i wanted to change before that happened, i would never change for anyone besides myself
but i kinda want to know where the idea came into my head in the first place, and i want to get it out of my head
i've felt like this forever, since i was like in elementary school
as a kid i wouldn't wear a bathing suit with the sides cut out cause i felt fat..and i must have been like 8 or something ... it's kinda disturbing to think about...

thanks kc, much love to you
i heard about the facebook thing, that guy's an idiot

he liked me before..like last weekend...so the taste thing is kinda fucked..eh i don't want to get in on it here

basically i think everyone needs fucking lobotomies to rid ourselves of this fucking obsession


no matter how many people tell you you are beautiful it won't matter until you think
it yourself

 

so who would like to give me a lobotomy for christmas? :H

 

i'll give you something else for christmas

 

super slim is totally unatural

 

who the fuck says??

i could just as easily turn around and say "being super fat is totally unnatural" wouldnt you disagree?

back in the day it was NORMAL to be slim.

 

how can something that occurs naturally be unnatural?

 

^good point.

 

everything is sexy to someone looking for it to be. at least a little.
and of course not just sexy either. lots of other things work that way too.

=^^=
.../\...

 

That's true...

 

Because the "in" thing is to have a bit of meat on the bones nowadays.... folks don't even think about what they are saying.

If you want to look at things in a natural sense, its actually quite natural for some to be skinny, just as its quite natural for some to be fat.

Just as has been said in here a few times, you can't make blanket statements about such things... gotta judge no more than the individual.

 

Yeah, I like a girl with some meat on her bones. I like a full waist and chunky thighs (not huge). I'm pear shaped and if I were a guy, I'd date a girl with my shape.

 

Im thinking this thread needs more actual images to be able to make a better judgement, then again it could be the total lack of sleep talking.