Does your wife know about your bi experiences and is she cool about it? You hear from many guys who don't have sex at home anymore for one reason or another. Would your wife rather see you being Bi, compared to sneaking around with another woman?
This has been asked several times here in the forums. I could have never come out with my first wife of 28 years. I told my present wife early on in our relationship unknowing how she would respond. She wasn't disgusted or grossed out. She was actually wanting to hear about it and in later conversations thought it would be hot to witness. Two years has passed and we have a married friend (his wife doesn't put out) who stops over to play once or twice a month with us. My wife is seriously turned on by it, and participates with us most times but also allows us some one-on-one times too. She just doesn't want me doing things behind her back which I agreed not to do.
That is cool. Being open has its advantages. I don't know about you, but my wife wouldn't be cool if I was sneaking around with another woman. I'm too old to deal with that, just for a little satisfaction. It's a lot more satisfying when there are no apprehensions. Having a wife who is into it and encouraging is the greatest.
I was fortunate to have a wife, g/f at the time, who was the catalyst to my exploring my bi side. Started with a threesome and went from there. He and I would play alone at times but, like you, she was interested in hearing about it.
Told my wife about a dream I had the other morning. It involved me going down on a stranger On a train. She got incredibly turned on and wound up screwing like we were 20 again.
I didn't have any bi yearnings when married to my first wife so the subject never came up. I discovered my bisexuality a few years after our divorce. Second wife thought sex between two men was "disgusting" but was open to having sex with another woman. Didn't happen. I suppressed my desires for the two years we were married and right after the divorce started sucking cocks again. I had a bi girlfriend for a few years who was into anything and everything sexual. I learned a lot from her, such as topping, bottoming, DP, VDP, threesomes, foursomes, groups. God, she was a lot of fun.
My ex wife was the one that introduced me to gay porn and made me see men from a sexual eye. We had a few mild experiences together. After my divorce my mind was more open. The relationships I have had since then were very aware of my interest and past experience. One just enjoyed multiple partners and would criticize and judge when we argued about any issue. The current gf is very supportive. She doesnt want anything sexual behind her and. wants to share all experiences. She felt left out with a gay couple I was invited to join. I felt a lil jealousy a couple of times when seeing me enjoying giving oral ,but she knows there is no romantic interest and my heart is with her.
My gf of four years wanted s bi guy due to limitations in past relationships. We shared some amazing experiences I’ve feky so fortunate for as she’s the first partner who’s encouraged, supported and got off on it. To have your girl hold your head on a cock she knew was going to blow/& was I glad too/ the first facial I’d had in a year -& she knew it too! It brought us closer. She said anything’s possible as long as she’s part of it. This has made it hard at times when I’ve had those strong unreadable urges for cock in my mouth; to play with another man like only men can - when she’s been away or preoccupied it’s made it very challenging. I’m not perfect and surprisingly I faltered for the first time ever in s relationdhip. I cruised online , I got some at a gkoryhole... I never cum; she questioned my change of appearance etc for weeks until each time I had to admit it. And we’ve gotten through it but it’s not Been without challenges. I’ve never felt so torn. It’s not about anything but the physical side of a mouthful of cock. There’s no intimacy. But there was deceit at the time And even now, as great and untouchable the moments we have together are withothet guys joining us; there’s times I do feel like just some mm experience again - not behind her back - but esp if she’s not in the mood... sometimes I feel she’s contradicted the standard only if she’s in the mood... I have this side I had before we met that I can’t conttol the ride Abd fall of but I know I’d never into tiondkky hurt her. I’m intimately in love with her. I share I care I enjoy I assist I r kerirjce eith her; but I love yo get on my knees and milk a good dick with my hungry mouth too!!&pump my dick into another cock loving guy too; at times. But it’s jusr the physical act, the sex the taboo. The kink ... she doesn’t have a cock Abd I dint have tits and smooth skin or long hair. She likes chicks too but not as much as I like cock. She loves multiple cock but not without me... I know I coukd not compare with another girl for her ; I wouldn’t protest being there or not but she won’t allow me to without her fir now. I’m grateful I have the life I do. Hell I can’t complain for my sex life of the boundaries in place ...but for people that bit more sexual than many or most of the norm, it is an issue constantly to deal with Anyone else with supporting wives or otherwise in similar situation?