Are Older Seniors Asked To Help Provide Sex To Widow Or Widowers?

For senior citizens, Have you every been approached to provide sex to a widow or widower? Out of respect for their sexual health needs. I see nothing wrong with older people helping each other. If your a older couple, would allow your spouse to have sex with a single senior person in need just to give some sexual to them?

 

I've never been asked. If my wife wanted to do it, she is free, but I doubt if she would. 20 years ago...she might have done it back then when she felt sexier.

 

being old sounds great. us young people have to find other single people and be nice to them (but not too nice) and eventually, if we're charming enough, we might get to have a relationship that includes sex. i can't wait until i'm old and i can just approach any old couple and say "help a brother out and lend me your bitch for an hour. i need her to provide sex for me out of respect for my sexual needs."

 

Interesting idea. As I age sex changes to a different level. I find myself wanting to experiment more to kick things up a notch. Not so sure my wife would be into the idea for me or herself either. Would I allow her? Sure. Great turn on for me. But she wouldnt, Im sure.
Im at the age now where Id like to try things we never dared before.

 

I'm not trying to "cheapen" the needs of older people as "hooking up" like the younger generation does. My wife and I are fortunate to have each other. Older people have the same sexual desires as the young. However, we do believe that it's ok for the older generation to have fwb's.

 

the sex scene at 70 is no different than the sex scene at 20....just at a way slow pace...which is fine with us




we don't need volunteer whores to fuck ...that's weird and fucked up

 

I agree we don't need volunteer whores. The point I was making was respectful to the needs of older lonely people. I think all older people should live a sexually full filled life if they choose too. So that said, I will drop this question.

 

Masturbate.

 

Doesn't leave much to talk about at breakfast

 

No. The opposite problem exists. Usually they have a hard time even dating someone else for a long time. Sex is not on their minds and for many, having sex in an old body with someone you just met, is not appealing to most. The bars are active at night with seniors looking for sex, but it is not the charitable sex like you are talking about.

 

Yes I am paid to give sec to seniors. 500€ an hour.

 

What about mere seniors, as opposed to 'older' seniors. What about younger seniors? Usually seniors who meet and like each other don't objectively consider 'respect for their partner's sexual health needs'. Instead, they just find themselves enjoying a hug and before you know it their tongues intertwine and the male senior's penis become engorged while the female senior's vagina becomes moist or positively wet and - in parallel - you might notice moans and purrs and related noises. OK - it could be two guys or women or other combinations, but this is statistically the most likely.

They won't necessarily fuck at this point but there could be finger fuckings, jerkings off, whole body lickings and . . . well . . . you get the general idea

I've never consciously respectged a senior's sexual health needs - rather have just gone at it hammer and tiongs while staying tuned to my partners needs - expressed or implied (in states where legal)

 

Would this include oral sex?

 

I posted this on another thread. My wife and I are helping an old friend. His wife past away last year and he is lonely. He also has ED. My wife helps him by giving him oral and he gives her oral. He is unable to get erect enough to penetrate her. Basically, she is helping him feel like a man again and quality of life.
There is nothing wrong with helping a friend feel better about themselves. This is a work in progress.

 

i think this is a concrete scenario. I also want to believe she enjoys doing this for/to/with him as well as you do watching what's going on. At the end of the day, sex is not just about penetration, but the joy and pleasure that involves of all the activities. if they both have a good time giving oral to each other, this can be great sex too. Do you participate? This would be a different story.

 

MikeBD, They both enjoyed their time together. I was there, and did get to see them. I let them be. I did not want to add pressure for him to perform. There more to this story. I invited him to watch me fuck my wife. He enjoyed watching me penetrate her. As I said it’s a work in progress and we only see him occasionally.
We are helping a friend, nothing more.

 

Wish I had more friends like that mikebd and his wife

 

The best part about sex when you get older is that women aren’t afraid to be sluts!!

 

As I am the OP for this subject, My wife and I continue to assist our widower friend, when we see him. He has not made much progress with his severe ED. When we see him we usually stay over night. My wife will get naked as we all do, and just let him caress her body. She will do oral on him. We cook naked together as well. It’s just our way of helping our friend.