Are men really hornier than women?

I love having the upper hand

 

psh.. question is why don't more women coug it up with younger men who have it on and poppin 24.7. theres a solution.

and to answer your question, because women *typically aren't as obnoxious and overtly sexual the way 18 yr old young men are.

 

I woulda got it on with a younger man who was interested in me but as sexy as he was he was quite immature. Hate to say it, he was nice.
We are still friends.

 

yes, my bad.

 

It's not so much that women are less horny. Rather it's more to do with them being more selective when it comes to sex. Biologically speaking, males can spread the seed around with less consequence, whereas a females want to find a partner they know will stay with them and support them through the pregnancy and child rearing. The woman wants to make sure she's having sex with a man who will devote himself, that's why women are more sexually selective. Yet even today how most societies have access to contraceptives, the biological instinct still remains.

 

this makes sense theoretically, but it's kind of contradicted when females generally run screaming from men who show likelihood to devote themselves and instead have sex with men who present the impression of not really giving a damn.

 

Averaging over the population, yes, men are much hornier than women. Women complicate sex a lot, and think too much on what people are thinking of them, including the man she's having sex with. Too many hang ups spoil the experience.

It's so easy to approach a man for sex. Women, on the other hand...

There are all the hormonal issues, as well. Some women may think they're very horny, but that may depend on where she is in her cycle.

Many women, after the guy is granted and the babies are born, go completely out of sex.

The female orgasm is complicate to get, many women don't, that's also a reason women grow out of sex.

There are exceptions.

 

Yes men are often more sexual than women.

 

Well my family must be an exception,,, my parents were doing it long after three kids and I am sure they still do.

Grow off of sex? I want it more now then I did in my earlier adult years. back then it was fun but I wasnt jumping the gear shifter if no one was around.
I dont know women who have said they dont have orgasms. No one I have talked about it with anyway.
My BF likes sex a lot but he is not nearly as horny as I am. He says I turn him on and when I want it he is ready but I am the one all over him first. I am the aggressor here.
I dont really believe all you have said unless its your own personal experience. Men are hornier in their younger years and women in their later years. Thats been a fact a long time so ya men are hornier at some point then women,,,

 

I'm glad that men are more horny, I just wish they could have sexual stamina with that horniness.

 

I think the operative word here is "boyfriend." You're in a monogamous relationship. Men find monogamy difficult even as they age.

 

Right now yes and when I am not in a relationship I still get horny more then when I was younger and not in a relationship. And being in a monogamous relationship,,, that's me, it's my way of thinking like my parents I would think but I have known lots of women over the years that weren't necessarily all about having one man. My best friend several years ago fooled around on her hubby all the time. That about her bothered me.
One friend I have now splits up with her man every now and then over something and every time she jumps another and then they end up getting back together again. She has grown kids who are much like her with relationships, boy and girl.
Some girls at my old work place were trying to get in bosses pants (it was a huge company so lots to go around), to gain better opportunities probably but several of them were married. I remember Deserie, she had herself in three of the supervisor's pants in the 11 years I was there and she was married, man she was a horny one always anoint off her tattoos which were below the belt line to attract attention from the guys, now that she has a kid she quit there and has settled down, if only he knew and I wonder if it's his.
I think it depends much on the relationship getting old that a woman might seem less horny, I also know many men who wouldn't look at another women because they love their wife/girl friend.
Some guys here will tell you their wives still know how to please em after many long years of marriage. Heard a few here already but it's a Work in Progress for the duration for both and don't kid yourself, many women will dump their man for a new one who still has it in him to give her what she needs.

 

maybe if women were as horny as men, men would get enough practice to improve their sexual stamina to the preferred level.

 

People like to talk about their own experiences, their friends', etc. I also like to talk about myself loads, so I understand that.

But let's not forget, our own experiences are irrelevant in answering a question like this. How many people do we know personally? And with how many of those have we been talking about sex? And from these, how many were being honest? That's a planet with about 7 billion inhabitants. Many of them are adults. How relevant is our own experience to make an assumption on human sexuality? A little humbleness and common sense goes a long way. Our navels are all very pretty, but they aren't the center of the world.

A little Google search can help anyone out of her/his ignorance on the subject, because there's serious research done on sexuality.

But if one feels the need to come and say, "I'm a woman/man and I, my friends, all of my acquaintances, parents, dogs and cats, as well as the former neighbor of my neighbor and her parrot have sex 5 times a day," why not? That's the internet. One can say anything one wants. As long as it makes the person posting feel good, it's all good.

 

Then if you are trying to educate on a level as you claim you should be able to provide links to back it up because what you read is different from what I read,,, just as what you experience is not what I experience, see where this got us? What you said above looks like it's just your thoughts and I challenge that.

 

Just thought I would quote this to show what I am saying as well.

Anyone remember the old saying a guy can pop a hard on every seven seconds? If so or nearly so do ya think they really are actually horny all that often? They would drop dead if they were... It's just a woody sometimes. I think people think they are more horny because of things like this.

 

Come on, It's anatomy 101 man.

Men = legless and from mars.

 

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I think stamina might mean not shooting off before some penetration and play just because foreplay itself was good. Maybe?
Some men especially if they haven't had it on a while might shoot off fairly quick, then a woman might expect it to be a lousy session, it isn't the guys fault,,, in many cases that he shot off early,,, maybe the couple haven't been at it in a while, or the guy can't hold a hard on very long, this is where the little blue pill comes in,,,?
My first X used to go off fairly quickly if we had been busy in our lives and didn't have time for it for a while, But, he didn't end it just because of that.
A lot of women are afraid their guy goes off first and falls asleep. Can happen in a long marriage I suppose but it shouldn't.
As far as expecting a less then amazing sexual experience. Being with the man who pleases you shouldn't see this feeling happening. Is it with one night stands they would expect that or a worn out marriage where it's happened before? I dunno, I can't say I expected less except at the end of my first marriage when we both started to drift away from each others interests. It did get dull and boring for both of us but we did try and realized we were kinda done with each other.
In any case if we both had fun but he shot off early, that would be a compliment to me,,, right?

 

well that saying isn't really true. it takes more than seven seconds just for the hard on to go back down.

but anyway, other than morning wood, when a guy who isn't still in puberty gets a woody, it's because he's horny. it's never just a woody.