Are 20% of men banding 80% of women?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by You Can Be Mean, May 29, 2014.

  1. You Can Be Mean

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    I've read recently that 20% of single men are sleeping with 80% of women. Perhaps those aren't the actual figures, but you get the gist. I guess I've always been aware of this, but just never really put my finger on it until I read that. And now that I have, it's kind of annoyed me. I have to invest so much effort, time and money for the hope of getting sex, when a beautiful girl ca pretty much have who she wants when she wants. I guess I shouldn't be spiteful of women for this, because naturally they're going to take the best that they can have. But I do think that if they too, were properly aware of these statistics, they might finally realise that it might be the case that the guy they're with is cheating on them with several other women!

    There are so many men out there(you know them when you see them) that are sexually starved. They may have everything else going for themselves in their lives, but you know that they lack sex and that may be quite a burden for them AND something that they've no one to talk to about. It's also a weak spot for them that women can nag at them if they wish to annoy them. And the sexually starved man in question will always fear this. It is therefore something that they feel embarrassed about. I mean think about it; do you think any adolescent male would have the confidence to shout out 'I'm a virgin' as a joke, knowing that others would know it was a joke?? No, not very many... and it's because they're all trying hard to be precieved as not being virgins and because there's so much pressure put on them to prove that they're not virgins.... because they know women wouldn't have them if they were virgins!

    And because I don't get with that many girls, my younger sister often says, "could he be gay?". Which annoys me, because I can't just retort "it's not that I'm gay, it's just that I can't put on a short skirt and get shagged at the drop of a hat"
     
  2. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    So you are doubting your sexual preference?
     
  3. You Can Be Mean

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    Not funny, and NO I didn't hint that in any way! Next
     
  4. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    Statistics - there' one for everyone.

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  5. TheGhost

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    Still can't rep you .... but :2thumbsup: for this post. :D
     
  6. You Can Be Mean

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    cretin
     
  7. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I understand, it is a confusing period in life :sunny:
     
  8. You Can Be Mean

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    I'll also make an unjustified assumption, and assume you're one of the unfortunate 80% of sexually starved men trying to get a false high by belittling others on the net
     
  9. Asmodean

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    Doubting your sexual preference does not make you a less/little/smaller person at all, so it is unfortunate you seem to perceive it like that. I hope you soon come to terms with yourself :2thumbsup:
     
  10. Cherea

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    That statistic has remained constant throughout primate evolutionary history. Mating isn't easy, it isn't a right, nor is it owed you. Women have painfully clear reasons to be choosy.

    But you have one advantage as a male, which is also entirely evolutionarily justified. And that is, the 20% of women who are outside your statistic will fuck anybody...for a small fee.

    If you only drop your pride, they'll drop their panties, and you'll end up shagging more chicks than all the alphas put together. Stop sucking up to women out of your league.
     
  11. You Can Be Mean

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    What I am preceiving is your deliberate sarcasm and pretending that you think I'm confused about my sexual preference because of the fact you know(from the thread) that that irritates me. Keep this behavior up and I'll report you, and destroy your squeaky clean reputation that you've worked so hard for.

    The gay comment mentioned in the thread was a side note, and is clearly not what I'm dwelling on here. No wonder you read into it!
     
  12. Asmodean

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    Well they only end up hurting themselves when they can't realise that some guys are too good to be true, after being fucked and discarded by the players in the top 20%!!! So you're kind of wrong there too!
    That's not an advantage
    I simply wouldn't be able to even get it up for them!!!! I put quality before quantity.

    An btw, I don't 'suck up', I win!
     
  14. Asmodean

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    Do you believe in 'leagues'?
     
  15. Karen_J

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    A lot of younger women go for a certain type of man (the 20%) when we're playing around, having fun, and not ready to pursue a serious long term relationship. Later on, we find nicer guys from the 80% group to be better choices for marriage. Women who don't figure that out before their first marriage usually get it right the second time around.

    So, the guys who aren't in the most macho 20% need to be patient. Their time is coming, even though they probably aren't ever going to get a chance to fuck any virgins. By then, the 20% guys will have seen their high school football muscles turn to blubber, and all their best days will be in the past.
     
  16. TheGhost

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    Ahhh, now I understand. You THINK you're a player. Are you?
     
  17. Asmodean

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    He wants to be one, I suspect as well. Let's hear him explain 'quality' in this regard.
     
  18. You Can Be Mean

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    Interesting to think that if it came to a one night stand, you'd choose a player over your soul mate!!!
     
  19. You Can Be Mean

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    It's a grey area and therefore would have a very long answer!
     
  20. Asmodean

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    I'm more intrigued in what you mean with quality women anyway! I hope you explain.

    In all seriousness about the original post though, I think those percentages are wrong and misleading.
     

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