I am an aquarius and have read about the ordeal of not being emotional enough and think it is not true. See, aquarians have such big hearts that they are afraid to commit to just one person or cause. Finding love is probably better to find it in yourself first. I myself can have a romantic fantasy of a mind because i have never dated anyone in person. I love the idea of having soul mates instead of just one soul mate. My mercury/capricorn makes me come off as a bit willful and energetic. As for my emotions, my Lunar Gemini in the ninth house gives me that feeling of communicating on different levels instead of overanalyzing my emotions and thoughts...because i have been doing that for a long time. Discipline is the biggest life saver.