I once went down on a FB who had said I was the only guy she was playing around with and who wanted us to become more than just FBs. I thought it strange when I could smell condom. I didn't say anything about it because I didn't want to make her aware of that warning sign so others might notice it too. That's the one time my attitude changed such that, instead of giving her pleasure I secured my own. Sometimes I regret being so reactionary.