Anyone ever been shared by bf

Yes, he realised he was an idiot and decided he wants to try it again. We are gonna plan everything much better next time, no awkward starts, no closed doors and no displays of tenderness, we realised that was the main thing that upset him. It's just going to be straight sex when he's watching and affection only when he's next door.

 

You also want to make sure he fucks you,straight away afterwards. To reclaim you. If you can get it so the other guy cums in you (condoms) that is best but needs care arranging.

 

The another approach would be to fuck the other guy without him there. He may find it easier to handle but just as hot when he fucks you afterwards

 

I'm looking forward to hear about your next experience! I Iove reading about first steps into this lifestyle. And i especially appreciate hearing it from the woman's side, which is quite rare

 

Well our second experience should be happening in two days time, assuming our "bull" doesn't chicken out. He's capable but a bit shy... Happy to report back afterwards. We are putting a lot of thought and preparation into the next meeting so it should be a lot better than the last one.

 

We've found enjoying the preparation is hot. Have a shower together. Let your husband chose special sexy lingerie. Pick a pretty, sexy dress but not slutty. Let him help you get dressed. You are giving yourself and in a way your husband as a special gift.

 

I enjoy being shared. I've done it with quite a few of my partners. The thing is you both have to be 100 percent into it. It's not something you just want to experiment with. Once your man sees another guy inside you or his dick in your mouth there's no turning back. If he's not COMPLETELY ready and understands what you're doing it can be a disaster. To be blunt, he has to know he's going to see you getting fucked. He has to accept and be cool with the fact that you will like having another man inside you. He has to know that another man's semen will be filling your vagina or mouth. Some guys think it is a cool fantasy but don't realize how intense it actually is. And it is intense, especially when you have another guy inside your pussy and you make eye contact with your man....wow...that's what does it for me.

 

Yep. Going shopping with my bf on Saturday before the event. He normally hates going shopping with me but something tells me it's gonna be different this time. Sexy but not slutty is exactly what I want so we are not going to a sex shop, just a good department store but I'll let him choose.

 

Well that was our problem exactly last time. We had planned eye contact and all that, but it never got that far because my bf got freaked out, not by the fucking but by the kissing and cuddling. Now we've laid some ground rules, like no closed doors, no excessive displays of affection when he's in the room but frequent eye contact so he feels involved. I want to try reverse cowgirl so I'm looking at him and not the other guy.
I think once my bf is more used to these situations he'll relax and we can explore other things, but we need to take it in steps. We learned the hard way not to do too much too soon.

 

Reverse cowgirl is very hot and as you say you can look right into your Bfs eyes. Try to do that as the other guy enters you for the first time. So your BF can share in how you feel. In that position he will also get a great view of the other guy sliding in and out which he should find very erotic and exciting. Your BF is also free to touch and kiss you while the other guy is in you and that will help you bond as well.

 

Excellent idea. A present for you and for the other guy. it enhances the sexy sharing and anticpation for both or you. You will both get a thrill from knowing how and when it's going to be worn. And a secret illicit thrill in the store and at the till. They won't know it's so two men can have you

 

That's it for us as well. The eye contact is the ultimate. When the other guy enters your partner and you can see how fantastic it feels through the look in her eyes is very very intense and exciting. But as you say. No going back. And at the moment the other guy ejaculates in her. That final build up is very very exciting but again as you look into her eyes it is like he's fucking you as well. Once you have seen another man's semen in your girls pussy or mouth how you see her changes. In our case for the better, a sexier more complete person, but different.

 

I don't know hon. He doesn't sound ready. How excessive of a display of affection is having another man's cock inside you? You're going to be fucking. You're going to be moaning. If he's not comfortable with that, how comfortable is he going to be hearing you moan, the other guy groaning (like they always do), or him yelling "I'm cumming". He's going to know another man is making back cum deposit in his bank! You guys need to go through EVERYTHING. Watch some 3 way porn or cuckold porn. The amateur stuff. So you can see what's going to happen.

 

We've done all that. He's already seen me fuck another guy, just a few days ago. If you go back through the thread you'll see how the experience went. As I said, we've talked a lot after the event and worked out what he was ok with and what upset him. The fucking, the moaning, the yelling, none of that was a problem, he's been fantasising about it for years and he was ready for it. What he wasn't prepared for was me leaning onto the other guy, looking into his eyes and kissing him. Then after sex, lying next to him, cuddling him and whispering "you did so well". That's what I mean by affection. Fucking doesn't require feelings and doesn't have to be about love, so I think that's where the line needs to be drawn - for my bf anyway. I'm sure it's different for everyone. I'm happy to do it the way he wants me to do it, this is for him more than it is for me.

 

That makes sense. Separating the lust and fucking from "love". You seem fine on that line and hopefully your BF will be as well. Once you are ok with that the away you go for some of the most exciting experiences of your life

 

I think you said you were using condoms. I can see why. We use a regular and don't and him cumming bare into her adds to the experience. Reverse cowgirl is great when the other guy cums. Your husband will be able to see everything ( lean back a bit), the other guys cock pulsing and pumping and I can then watching his semen ozzimg out round his cock. That's the cue for her to move off him, lie back and me to slide in.

 

Hubby's friend is a lot bigger than hubby and I love the feeling when he shoots his load deep inside me!!! He Cumms really hard and has a lot of Cumm! Then he will wipe his cock on my tits and on my Nipples and that makes me Cumm again!

 

Two hours to go to my next adventure! My bf has left for the pub where he'll spend time with his friends until I text him to come home. Meanwhile I've got two hours to get ready for Matt's visit. Got my nice new lingerie (sexy, not slutty!), prosecco in the fridge, scented candles in the bedroom - and lube in case things get a bit freaky!
I'm so looking forward to it I could actually burst.... Wish me luck!!!

 

Rooting for you Gill, I know you're going to do brilliantly well tonight. Wish I could see the lingerie you're wearing

 

For my second meeting by GillBlack posted Sep 14, 2019 at 8:40 PM

How's this Greg? Sexy not slutty... My bf's choice. 20 minutes to go!