Anyone dick starved?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by TheSamantha, Jul 12, 2014.

  1. MochaMood

    MochaMood Member

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    You tell him!

    Anyway, it's been much longer than a week because of distance from my partner. I may have agreed to exclusivity prematurely, but I did agree to it, and I will honor that. Can hardly stand the wait for him to move closer. But a few more weeks and we'll be in the same room. I'm with you though. By day seven, I am seriously backed up.

    You are insufficiently virile to satisfy the likes of me. If you're not famished for some lovin' after a day or two, can't even remotely empathize with that kind of sexual appetite, we just wouldn't be right for each other.

    I worked for a phone sex company, on and off for the last 10 years, that specialized in BDSM, D/s and fetish fantasy with intelligent and articulate women. The company was owned by a woman who dropped out of Harvard's medical school after completing her undergrad there. Many of the clients were quite well-educated, some were holders of multiple patents, some were executives whose names you would know, or whose employers were responsible for the best things in your home. There are certain topics broached by her clientele which cannot be discussed in any manner which might imply politeness. Sure, an outrageous case of the hornies is not among those, but what you expect of Ivy Leagers is nonsense. Or have you never heard of Tucker Max?

    You are exposing your boyfriend to risks without his consent. You are therefore violating his body. That's a pretty big deal.

    No. YOU are not. She might be. Or it might be hyperbole. I know I feel like it has been way too long after just a few days. A sexless week is kind of a nightmare. A sexless month is almost an outrage. There does, however, come a time where celibacy begins to feel normal. I'm at two months. I'm not there yet. Actually, because of the long distance separating me from my boyfriend, we have sex just often enough to keep me slightly impaired from want of a nice hard fuck.
     
  2. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Come on now how hard is it for a single woman who is not into relationships to get layed? Go to any bar make it known you are looking and you will have guys all over you. It does not even matter what you look like there will be tons of guys that will fuck you if you make it known you are looking.
     
  3. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    Apparently some women keep their standards even while horny. I don't think that's strange.
     
  4. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    Who needs class when u got a steady supply of dick
     
  5. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    They can keep their standards. My lady and I have seen a lot of not so attractive women get picked up by men that would be considered attractive when we are out at the bar. Many men just do not care what they stick their dicks in. It is just a fact of life.
     
  6. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Here's wishing you good huntin'. : )
     
  7. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

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    Thanks buddy.:sunny:
     
  8. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Why not just ask him about opening your relationship?
     
  9. WayneCider

    WayneCider Member

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    Nothing wrong saying your dick starved. I love feeding my wife's pussy every chance we get.
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well, i wasn't propositioning you...

    anyway, i completely understand wanting constant sex. i just think it's ridiculous to whine about getting sex more often than everyone else.
     
  11. MochaMood

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    "Standards" usually means not fucking people who dont appear to have any. I can't speak for The Samantha, but I know I am not interested in any men who "do not care what they stick their dicks in".

    I didn't think you were. I just wanted to point out that the OP is not alone, and that not everyone has a drive at the same level as yours. You have no idea how much sex she nor everyone else is having. Based on this post, we know it had been one week. Based on a other post, it seems she may have left her FWB behind. So, is this the first week of an indefinite period? Before the last time she had sex, how long had it been? The fact that she may he having more sex than you does not mean she is having more sex than everyone else. She's not whining. She's looking for people who relate. At the end of the day, isn't that what many people want? Isn't that one major purpose of a message board?
     
  12. AngelAus

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    Feeling pretty starved here.
     
  13. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Mother always told me there were people starving in other places. I guess she was right.
    Nothing wrong with a good sex life.
     
  14. vance2335

    vance2335 Banned

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    How is that possible?
     
  15. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    I am pretty sure that the guys that have success in picking up women for FWB situations are not telling the ladies you will do or I do not care what I stick my dick in. They are probably saying and doing whatever they think they need to so they can get what they want.

    I am not one of these guys myself, because I am pretty particular about who I am having sex with, but I know a whole lot of these guys and hear their stories at work when they are bragging about how they got in with someone and none of them are to flattering towards the women.
     
  16. MochaMood

    MochaMood Member

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    Oh, so it is just that most women are not as smart and perceptive as you? If you can sense that a particular dude has no standards, so can many of he potential partners he approaches. Typically, when I get this sense from a man, it is because he obkectifies me, and does not seem to be treating me like a whole person, or he just does not come across as genuine. Honestly, you can tell if someone just sees you as gettable pussy, and not as a person they'd like find out more about.
     
  17. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    It is great that you can pick out the good ones! Not everyone seems to have that ability. It is not about me being smart and perceptive. It is about me hearing it first hand from the players that are doing it on a daily basis. What they are telling the women they are picking up is not what they are telling everyone else. It seems not everyone can see through the crap like you can.

    We were also talking about FWB situations on this thread. In those situations I didn't think it was supposed to be about finding out more about the other person. I always thought it was supposed to be just about sex without all the other real relationship stuff.

    I don't think the OP has the same set of standards as you do either. All it takes is a look at another thread on here where a guy she meet talks about her big tits and hairy **** like that is some knid of compliment to see that.
     
  18. MochaMood

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    Personally, I can't just fuck some walking penis. I know any man I lay with is more than just life support for an erection. I don't ignore the first letter in the FWB situation. Wanna fuck me? Gotta try to be my friend. I don't feel like the friendship has to be solidified before I go forward, but the potential for it has to be there. After all, we are probably each other's buoys in situations where a date is needed, and we have to be able to talk to each other. There is a measured amount of flirting, no? And joking around?

    I know there are men AND women with no standards out there. But we generally don't encourage people to pursue them. Right?
     
  19. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    I can totally respect the way you look at things and do things! As far as the people with no standards that is their call as well. I wouldn't try and tell them how to live their life either. I am a little selfish and tend to just worry about the close ones in my life and my relationships with them.
     
  20. AngelAus

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    Long distance at times. Don't worry, something awesome happened last night. :sunny:
     

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