Anyone been picked up, or picked up another guy in a bar?

I have 3x. Tell me pour stories, Ill tell you mine.

 

never have, tried but no good, love to

 

sure.. 1969-1977
top of Topanga Canyon was a bar.. couple of guys and I drove to West Hollywood.. picked up another guy.. four guys/three nights.. they even took me back for my car..

Brennan's Pub in Marina del Rey.. Nov '76 I met the lady who's been my wife for 48 years... but after getting her number before she went home, I took a guy to his apartment.. he had a roommate.. 3 nights..

easiest way to p/u was adult book stores.. find a guy reading gay mags, pick one up and eventually you're confirming 'yes.. I wanna fuck you'

must be easier now.. I'm not even sure MM sex was 'legal' back then..

but no MM since marriage (& yes.. she knows I was a switch-hitter)

 

I've hooked up with a number of men from a bar I used to stop at after work. I never went with the intension of finding a cock to suck, I was there for something to eat and few beers. Sometimes conversations went into sharing how sexually frustrated they were with their wives and how badly they needed a good blowjob before heading home. They got what they were looking for from me in the parking lot. Word got around that bar just as it got around the gym I was attending as cocks were coming out of the woodwork for me to orally pleasure on a regular basis.

 

It was at a sports bar in a large retirement village in Florida. I was on my way home from an event that went longer than I expected and was hungry. Sat at the bar one seat over from another man who was watching a game on the TV. After I ordered, we just sort of acknowledged each other's presence and watched what was on. My order came and, while I was eating, he introduced himself and we began talking a little. The conversation was mostly about work related stories and sports. When I finished eating, I ordered another drink and our conversation shifted more about our wives. He stated that he and his wife live in the opposite ends of their house and she goes on a lot of trips leaving him home alone for a few days a week. He asked about my wife and I told him that we still have a very active relationship. Somehow this segued into requesting advice on the difficulties of desiring sex but not comfortable with having an affair due to complications arising when another woman is involved. I spoke in generalities about other options for a bit and then said I needed to be on my way. We both paid and left together. He walked over to a motorcycle and I went to my car. As I started to pull out, he drove up to my side. I lowered my window and he came right out and asked if I would follow him to his house. Before I said anything, he explained that he sensed my interest in assisting him with his issue. When I did not give an immediate answer, he asked if he was wrong. My smile showed he was correct and I followed him to his place.

 

And?

 

Nice!!

 

After arriving at his place, he asked if I minded if he removed his clothes. I told him to go ahead and he sat naked in an easy chair. He then asked me to remove mine and, when I was naked, he motioned for me to come over. I knelt in front of him spent the next half hour or so licking, sucking, touching, etc until he grabbed the sides of my head, began moaning, and just exploded in my mouth. I kept him there until he was soft.

 

Nice!

 

I agree - that was nice! I do hope you had a chance to get off, too...

 

It was all about him that night. I could tell he was excited when he was sitting in his chair - his dick was already very hard before I took off my clothes. He thanked me profusely for giving him an amazing release and we made arrangements to meet back a week later.

 

I have been hit on more then I can remember. Being in the textile business, I met and worked among many gay men and was hit on by many, but never picked up. I didn't know if they were serious or teasing, because they knew my wife also.
While a bartender, I was hit on by men, but never picked up. There were so many women, it never entered my mind until my later years.

 

maybe you're lucky..
I was 'initiated' @ 11 by my 14 yo buddy until he was 18 & I was 15.. his mom got involved as well..
I was also an intern as LA City Lifeguards, then worked as an LA County FD hotshot, then US Army in 'Nam.. plenty of gay guys in Army.. then 1971-1977 there were maybe 50 guys and 200 girls.. then I met a lady, got her # and went home with a guy..

I've been married almost 48 years and suppressed the MM urges..

but they resurfaced a few years ago as marital opportunities waned..

it drives me nuts.. I even - sometimes - fantasize I'm with a guy when it's my wife!!

I think the early intro to MM sex wired me as bi.. it never goes away..

so not being interested in MM sex until later in life may make it easier for you when unavailable..

(my wife knew I was bi when we married.. I didn't see it as a 'permanent condition'; merely an optional opportunity.. I told myself I was bi- curious'..

I was wrong..

I'm 70%-80% MF oriented with a re-emerging hunger for MM/MMM(+)

it's complicated..

so have your occasional 'optional' fun without the constant desire.. be glad it's not ingrained..
I have a growing suspicion there's a lot of 'mostly straight' married guys who are actually bi and have urges/conflict like I do..

it would be interesting to actually know how many older guys yearn for MM sex rather than just 'think about it'.. did they start MM early too? then think it 'went away' but now find it didn't?

 

@mountain_seed I'm one of those men. If I wasn't married I'd would only seek out men for sex.

 

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At my age, I'll take what I can get. But still, Who has the time to put in, to find someone, unless by chance.
40 years ago, there were pleanty of opportunities, but no inclination to go there. Now I crave the opportunity for Any Sex, but as rediculous as it sounds, my wife says, no women allowed. (I don't think there are too many women interested in sex with me anyway ) My wife said, "It would probably give me a heart attack" While she is quite aware of what my friend and I do in the garage , tool room downstairs or on the boat and considers it"Safe Satisfaction" . The only problem is that she believes the occasional blowjobs are sufficient. She tries to help with the Strapon, but it Still does not meet the minimum requirements for Sexual Satisfaction. First friend was good for 3 great blowjobs a week, now it hit and miss when available. And she wonders why I have so many toys.

 

I was sort of picked up in a bar but definitely found men for sex in bars. At one known gay bar, Bucky's, I hit up on one of the bartenders who had a big bulge in his pants. He asked me into the stock room where I worked on his massive dick for about 20 minutes, licking, sucking, slapping my face with his dick until another bartender came in and told us the owner would fire my guy if he showed up so we went out back where I finished him off, so much cum that it spilled down on my shirt.
After we went back inside a couple guys were smirking so I winked at them and then went out back. Within seconds they were following me out where I ended up blowing four more guys. That was a total raw experience having all their cocks surrounding my face while I was on my knees finishing them one at at time, holding the others as best I could.
My favorite bar pickup was when I went to a bar dressed in drag the first time ever. I was nervous but had a raging boner the whole time. I found a group of guys playing pool and told them I was just there to get covered in cum and in the back lot they delivered.
More than anywhere else, when I get really horned up for men, if I'm in a city I just hang out in an adult arcade. Much better than bars and more direct. When a guy sees me sitting there in the booth with the door unlocked there is no mystery about what is going to happen if he comes in and closes the door behind him.

 

I'd say that this is to be expected when your wife is in charge of who you can have sex with and what you can do (and when you can, why you can, so on and so forth). FWBs are nice but it's like you can never get a hold of one when you need one; once the new wears off, it's not all that unusual not to see a FWB as often as you once did. All of this tends to come together and makes spontaneous connections a good thing to be prepared for except it's a casual/NSA sex thing that a lot of guys don't want anything to do with so while there's always a chance that you can get hit on and picked up in a bar - or, really, anywhere - you're not going to be able to take advantage of the situation because of the restrictions placed upon you.

And, yeah, at some point, the toys aren't as satisfying as the real thing definitely is, from giving head to being screwed.

 

So as promised, my first (I think) bar pickup. Sitting in an Arlington, VA hotel bar. After a professional conference. Bar getting ready to close, another guy a couple stools away from me. We moved closer and started talking s***. Asbyou can imagine, sex popped up.

After a few minutes I proffered that I was bi and would like some action. He agreed.

We arranged to leave the bar separately, to avoid suspicion (as if anyone cared), and met at his room.

Lots of foreplay. His dick was maybe a little bigger than mine...not much. I was hot for an ass fuck. He accomodated me, but without much lube. It hurt as you can imagine. He drained his dick in my ass.

We flipped and I jerked to get hard again and shot all over his belly and chest.

We parted ways.

 

Never in a bar, but many, maney times at City Park ...