Anybody Out There Like Mature Ladies

Probably in the way she acted. I've been with older women who acted very childish at times. It's annoying as hell because at the age of 40,50,etc., your expectations are that they would be beyond all the foolishness. Some of them literally acted like they were still back in high school. Same thing with a lot of guys too, they aren't off the hook.

 

37 you say.

Hello.

 

That's a tough thing around here, part of the reason I'm moving soon.
Seems to be two types around my area. One type is as Eric describes, the other type is snooty and proud of it.
My friend found one who is neither, but she lives two hours away from him. Met online. Has to get up @ 3:30am to shower, get ready and be in Lafayette by 7am.
One of them is gonna have to move, probably him.

 

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Yeah, it happens...I have a lady friend who is 45, seeing a man who is 27.
I believe young guys like that are known as "Cougars". Maybe because their sexy youth makes 'em ROAR!! Lmao...

 

Glad to see you back PattieD

 

Ok, I'll try. What do you mean when you said you are emotionally immature? What are certain things that make you behave in a childish manner that you personally identify with?

 

I like women of all ages but don't unconditionally feel I have to love them all because some can be complete bitches just like some men can be bastards. I like younger Women for fun and frolics because they are more up for having a laugh and are not so jaded. A 27 year old female is young to me. 18 - 24 just not realistic. I'll admit I find younger Women more attractive and I think that is just generally true for the majority of heterosexual males.

 

Here is an example (to me) of what an experienced mature woman is:
-A woman who loves you unconditionally, and not concerned about trying to change you
-A woman that stands beside you through the hardships, because she knows that it's only temporary and things will get better
-A woman that pushes you to be and do the best you can at everything, and is willing to help you get there
- She's unselfish, considerate, passionate, humble, and wise
-sensual, understanding of a man's sexual and emotional needs and not afraid to communicate what SHE wants and what SHE needs
-A woman who doesn't take shit from anybody, stands up and fights for herself, and handles verbal disagreements and with confidence, finess and tact.

Those are just a few examples of the characteristics (to me) that a mature woman possesses and everything I've seen in all the mature women I've ever dated.

 

Yes, that makes a lot of sense, and is kind of what I'm getting at. Head games are emotionally exhausting and totally unnecessary, and suck the life outta you. At least you can identify with this. Some folks dwell in the head games and enjoy it daily. And I'm not saying you are immature because of this. Defense mechanisms are ingrained in us from past bad experiences, and the more you learn to trust in him, I think this will go away.

 

eh, like eric said, she was a little childish in general. my main issue was that when we first hooked up i specified that anything we did had to be NSA, and she immediately determined that we were a couple and ended up in a borderline stalker situation. which i suppose isn't directly a maturity issue, but i think a more mature person would have handled the situation better.

 

They certainly have more outfits that I can fit into..

 

. . . hardly recognized the place

 

helloo pattie im brian! new here

 

I enjoy older women for one, they don't play games like the young ones, they make great tongue on vag directors and aren't too shy to tell you, and their conversations afterwords are more intelligent than the younger less lived breed.

 

Mature women are a mystery to me. I figure most of them have been sexual in their lives …………. but I wonder just HOW sexual and what kinds of things are they into. Generally, they aren't scary about sexual things and are more confident than a teeny-bopper. Experience!!

 

I simply adore being in the company of mature ladies, even just having conversations with them and me being a young guy it makes it so interesting. Of course I hope it leads me to getting into bed with her in which I have fortunately had great success so far

 

Older is the way to go! They know what they like! Hell, sometimes they got shit to do the next day and you don't have to do the old "arms a limp noodle, because it fell asleep, cuddling routine" and you just bounce until the next time.

 

I started going through this as well. I work in the medical field and see all different ages of attractive women. It sometimes surprises me when I see a very attractive woman and I see what her actual age is. I think as we get older we acquire a finer taste in everything. Definitely nothing wrong with it!

 

you know If they have aged well and I mean 40-60 yrs. old and stayed in shape, they asr very sexy and I think they are wilder and less inhibited

 

I enjoy women in general. Some of my hottest phone plays have been with older women.

 

I just to date 45 year old, that had the body of 21 year. Magnificent

 

Actually...I believe that it's the *woman* in that case who is known as a "Cougar". The older woman going after the younger guy.