Good attitude, stillinthe. Healthy, mature, balanced. Hopefully there are more ladies like this out there. I hope some of my partners from ago feel this way. (Oh, and maybe have a few memories too)
nothing wrong with this, after my marriage ended I enjoyed adult time with plenty of guys, I was surprised how many guys wanted to get with me. Even some of my work friends and friends of my Ex. Great confidence booster
My wife has also had a lot of other men before she met me. After she got divorced she was out every weekend enjoying herself. If that included sex with different men she enjoyed it even more. She has told me she doesn't regret any of it and enjoyed most of it It is part of her life and who she is so who am I to criticise her. The fact that her telling me about things she has done turns me on and she wants to carry and become a hot wife and a swinger is a bonus for me.
My FWB is a former sugar babe. Until he wanted a newer, younger babe, she did OK. New boobs, loads of vacations to fancy places. Yacht. Lived it up. When she left, he bought her a condo (since sold) and gave her a hunk of change. She did squander a lot of it but has no regrets. She loves men and has more than her share of threesomes with two men at once (she asked me once, I said no and now I wish I hadn't). To her, it's not so much a sex thing as it is a lifestyle. She has an on again, off again boyfriend and when he's around she lives a monogomous lifestyle. But when he's off, she lives her life in her own way. She rarely talks about her past in sexual terms. More like how she liked to party and meet people and show off her body and have a good time. I learned a lot from her, like how narrow minded I viewed her apparent promiscuity instead of seeing it as her own, very personal, choice.
In a similar vein, I moved from the midwest to the northeast, following my first boyfriend. I decided to end it after 10 years, moved out and got my own place. I basically "binged" on men for the next two years. I don't regret, and also enjoyed most of it. I frequented bars in the city, and was also known in the office I worked at as "easy." My husband started working there at some point, and I was highly recommended to him. I figured it was time to settle down and we started dating. He really enjoyed hearing my stories about that phase in my life.
That depends on your thoughts. Some people would think 4 or 5 was a lot. Some 10 or 20 we all have are own points of view on this. My wife has told me she has slept with over 150 men and more likely over 200 so I think that's quite a lot but it certainly doesn't bother me.
Well that's hardly mentioning. That's very few times. When you talk about 10,000 times or more, still not a lot.
I did 4 or 5 I think before I was married! I was married at 17 and have been married for over 40 years!
According to a paper published by Healthline.com the average number of partners per person in the USA is 7.2. In the UK the number drops to 7 and in Italy it goes even lower to just 5.4 partners per person. American men and women say 7.5 partners is not a lot. In France the number is 10. I've had over 30 partners and the numbers are growing as that isn't enough for me, yet. The answer to the question is, the number depends on what you think is a lot.
I had a conversation with my ex gf husband I dated her for 4 years from 07 to 11 which he was not aware of. He said the a few weeks back she admitted to him she has fucked over 50 guys during the 20 year marriage. She says that one man is not enough for her. She has only been with multiply partner twice. Most were here bosses and co worker As I was. He found out by putting a security camera on their property because of some issues with kids in the area. He worked first shift her second. Come to find out these guys would fu"k her before work. When he confronted his wife she let it all out. She is 56 and has been doing this since she was thirty. In fact he dated her while he was married and got her Pregnant. He divorced his wife and married her. . She was a great fuck and loved to give bj before work.