any virgins in here

You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Don't worry about it so much and just go out and meet some nice girls.

Getting laid isn't hard. If you want to have sex, do it, if you don't think you've meet the right one, go meet some more girls.

My roomates 25 and a virgin. My other roomates 52 and has MS, and has more girlfriends then I do. Lifes not a race to get laid.

More like a pyramid. Keep your chin up.

 

I think that actually, it's not just religious, but morality reasons too.

I'm talking about pre-marital sex, and I think you are too?

 

im that thing, but i dont care.

 

that's the spirit!

 

And here was me thinking I was the only one

 

Yeah, i am alking pre-marital sex...

1) I'm not getting any STD's (including the big one...a baby)
2) Most guys say they want to marry a virgin, but also say that they would have pre-marital sex with someone they aren't going to marry...a bit of a double-standard

 

It will probably (well i hope ) happen one day ...
But yeah, i'm still a virgin and i don't feel the intense desire to have sex ....

 

Who exactly wants to marry a virgin?

 

Me. Jealousy issues.

Plus then I could act like I know what I'm doing.

 

It's a pretty big assumption that rampant sexuality and intelligent philosophical discussion are mutually exclusive.

It's also a pretty big assumption that the only way to get laid is by "raping passed out women."

 

Beats me, I read it in some newspaper...But I would want to

 

I say if you do, you have to marry the person in the end...

 

Me too. But I'm against pre-marital sex enough when I'm sober that most likely wouldn't happen. I don't have a really strong want for it.

 

I tend to see virginity in women as demonstrative of certain personalities:
1) Extreme religiousness (extreme in my books, anyway).
2) Lack-of-confidence/repression
3) Lack of a desire for experimentation/overly cautious.

None of which I find particularly attractive. But that is just me.

 

never meant that it was metaphor for the nerdly aspects of my group

 

The more sex the better thats what isay

none for me

 

Yeah, this boy still has all his cards in his wallet. I'm 20 too, so don't make a big deal about it. I was put in situations before where I had the opportunity, but it just didn't feel right. Not too sure why, but I knew it wasn't right. Unless you have a medical condition that requires you to have sex - don't worry about it. Your time will come, and you'll know.

 

Oh yeah, just wanted to add somthing ... To all the other virgins out there - Much respect. Don't be afraid to admit it. When i'm talking to girls and they find out i'm a virgin, 9 times out of 10 they think it's hot. Major brownie points.

 

I'm not a virgin. It's always the ones you don't expect.

Really it doesn't so much depend on your religious and moral standards, it just depends on whether or not you fall in love (ruling out the more promiscuous people). I never, ever, ever in a million years expected to lose the ol' maidenhead two months before I turned 17--I was waiting for marriage or at least engagement. If you fall in love the way I did, a love so passionate and reckless and beautiful you know it's wrong but it's so right anyway, then there isn't much of a choice. I believe that many people who have kept their virginity and cherished it would not be virgins if they'd had such a love at all. It's all based upon chance. Who gets to fall in love and who doesn't.