Any successful swinger relationships

^ Hey thanks! Good idea!

 

Relationships with a submissive third partner work well

 

My partner and I have been swapping with the same married couple for several years. It works well for us. We have a lot of fun with it.

This practice is for strong relationships. A weak relationship would not survive it.

 

I agree

 

Me and my fiance are going out with a couple who's been our friends for awhile and we're gonna talk about possibly swapping and if not possibly threesomes. The woman's cool with it, she's just not completely sure about her husband. Wish us luck lol.

 

We wish you all the luck in the world! Hope that it works out for you like it has for us!

 

Getting into a swapping relationship with people that you trust is the only completely safe way to have a three-way. My old college friend likes to have two guys at once - getting entertained from behind while she does a blowjob.

For reasons that I don't fully understand, some guys love to see their lady get fucked by another man. My friend's husband is into this.

As for my partner and I, we see the arrangement mostly as a way to get some sexual variety without taking any risks with strangers. We don't like condoms, and they aren't 100% reliable (nothing in life is 100%). And of course, he loves watching two women do each other. What straight guy doesn't?

All four of us have seriously promised not to stray outside the group, for health reasons, so it is a committed relationship.

 

We stay within a group of friends that we know to be safe (and tested regularly). Over the years this group has grown but we have only added people that can demonstrate they are clean and safe. Although we attend swinger functions on a regular basis we never play with anyone that haven't proven they are safe. It's really tempting at times but we stick to our golden rule.

 

My husband and I have a different kind of relationship. It's open but I'm the only one participating in sex with another partner. My husband says he has no desire for another partner and is happy with just me enjoying the pleasures of extramarital sex.

I like the other man very much. We only get to see each other only about every 3 - 5 weeks, usually for an overnight or weekend date, so our time together is always very special and very intense. He makes my whole body sing when we make love. Neither of us have or desire any other outside interests so we are committed to each other in that sense.

I love my husband deeply and dearly, and I do know that I would be extremely jealous (but accomodating) if he had the same type of relationship with another woman that I have with this other man. But I do wish he would find a "fuck buddy" so I wouldn't feel so guilty.

I wholeheartedly endorse what other people are saying in the thread about honesty and openess. My husband knows everthing including my feelings for the other man. He says he wouldn't have it any other way, knowing that if he wants to share my body with another man he must also be willing to share my heart.

Some people here in Hipforums say I am not so much in an open relationship as I am in an open affair.