Any recomendations for first dildos?

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  1. Mia Smith

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    I'm a virgin who's looking for something that will go deeper then my fingers maybe even a vibrator. I'm just not sure which one I should get. When I go online it's so overwhelming and I cant really tell the size just online so any help would really be appreciated.
     
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    We started with a "reasonable" size, about 6 or 7 inches long, a dildo-shaped vibrator. That was good for my wife. We worked up from there.
     
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  3. Candybuttons

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    When I was a virgin, I attempted to put a carrot in my pussy, it was painful and I chickened out as soon as I felt pain.
    I never attempted to shove anything else in there after that until I started having sex.
    I recommend letting a guy be the first to go in, its just easier, it feels warm and he can get you excited and comfortable and it also makes him feel special too.
    Also if you see blood, it’s comforting having someone there.
     
  4. Mia Smith

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    Thanks for the advice but I've already put things inside me(ie.fingers and anything else that fits without giving me pain) whichi is why I wanted a dildo because I like the feeling of being full
     
  5. Candybuttons

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    I recommend a rechargeable vibrator over a dildo, but I guess you could get a 2in one if you want.
    I have one that has about 10 different vibrations, but I only ever use the main one.
    I enjoy clit stim much more than penetration from some cold plastic dildo. Lol
     
  6. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    Oh ok! Well then I would get a dildo that looks and feels similar to a cock then. I can’t recal the name, but it’s hard and also a bit squishy to mimic a real cock. Cyber skin I think?
     
  7. Mia Smith

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    That's interesting I never thought of a rechargeable one. What the name of the one you use so I can look it up
     
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    I don’t recommend the one I have, it only holds a charge for 45 mins.
    It looks like the magic wand but it’s cordless and it has 2 ends you can play with.
     
  9. Mia Smith

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    okay Thanks I guess
     
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    Omg there are so many I can’t decide! I want more then one! Lol
     
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    Yes I love a good sale.
     
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  14. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Go glass. :)

    Easy to clean, can be heated in hot water, can be chilled in the freezer for different sensations. They come with thorns, swirls, ribs, buttons and an array of shapes and sizes. I'm always trying to get people into glass toys, they're so much more fun. Sure they don't have vibration technology, but all you need is a small bullet vibe and the glass toy will vibrate throughout its entirety, quite intense too.

    Each they own though. They're definitely worth the price tag.
     
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  15. I started with a rabbit vibrator and it still gives me a lot of pleasers
     

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