I just finished When Things Fall Apart. An awesome thought provoking life changing book. I got it from the library and will try to read it again before it is due. I am ordering it used from B&N so I can have my own copy. She is a Buddhist nun and in this book she talks about how to stop fighting the events in your life and just surrender and experience them. How to meditate, etc. This was the best book I have read in a long, long time and I read tons of books. I think I will buy this for several people next Christmas.