Any Other Bi Married Guys Have An Agreement With Their Wives To Play With Men ?

Just curious if any other bisexual married guys have an "agreement" with their wives that allows you to act on your bisexual needs/desires with men.
After several discussions with my wife regarding my bisexuality, I've pretty much realized it's either gonna be her way, or no way at all.
She's made a couple different "proposals". The first one is that she be directly involved in my sexual activities with other men (my bisexuality ISN'T about her)...
The second "offer" she made me was to essentially CUCKOLD me by me also "allowing" (I wasn't given much choice in the matter) her to have a boyfriend if I am to persue a sexual relationship with another guy.
Truth be told, I actually like the idea of her Cuckolding me, I should've seen that coming, and I can't say I blame her. She knows I'm a sexually submissive bottom with men, and I can only imagine how that makes her feel... To know the man she married needs/wants to be sexually dominated by another man, and craves to have another man's cock in his mouth and ass. I really can't blame her for looking at me, and thinking of me as being "less manly" based on my bisexual desires... Or
for her to say she needs/wants a "real man" to have a sexual relationship with if I'm gonna be a submissive bottom for another guy.
So my question is wether any other bisexual married guys have an "agreement" or arrangement with their wives that allows you to act on your bisexual needs/desires with other men, and if you're willing to share what those "agreements"/arrangements are.

 

I guess it's an "agreement" my wife and I share...Our bisexual desires stay with the regular bisexual couple we've been sharing our bed with for the past 6-7 months. Tom and I have sex together far more than my wife and Carol have sex together.

 

My wife and I had an open relationship the last eight years, the deal being that she was my only woman. I made full use of it but she did little. This followed 5 months of a three with another bi-guy. She found she got too emotionally involved and that came to an end.

In the end we are at different stages in life and we split last year. I am now probably on the gay end of bisexual.

It's great if you can both get it to work and, generally for the woman, if you can separate the physical and emotional sides.

Good luck,.
Simon

 

Yep, and for myself my wife knows my bisexual needs are totally about my sexual needs and desires that are totally void from any emotional attachment (other than friendship) that she receives from me. "It's just business"!...lol

 

My wife and I have both been completely open with each other about our sexual desires and fantasies from day one of our relationship. We established early on that a bi mmf was something we both wanted, but we haven’t yet found the right guy for it. In the meantime, I was always very clear that her sex life was *hers* and if she wanted to fuck other men then that was fine by me, with the proviso that she tell me about it afterwards, because being cuckolded was always one of my fantasies. That side of our sex life has developed really well, in that my wife now regularly fucks a few of her exes, and each time it happens I wear a chastity cage (I’m usually at work while they’re having fun in the marriage bed), and when I get home she teases me with the details until I’m nearly cumming in my cage. So our hotwife-cuckold thing has developed a wonderful Mistress/slave vibe as well. The other day she made a crack about ‘lending’ me out (in a different context), but the D/s subtext to that immediately turned me on. We talked about the possibilities a bit, she got very hot and bothered too, and now we’re working out ways for her to whore me out to Dom/bull/top men as a sub/bottom fuck-toy. It‘s specifically the use of the word ‘whore’ to describe me, and the idea of her being completely in charge of choosing who can use me, that turns us both on so much. She’s working up a profile to put on Tinder or Grindr. I’ll keep you posted.

To be clear, this aspect of our sex life is a regular but occasional thing. We’re both well-adjusted professionals, we have a family, and we enjoy regular, frequent non-kinky love-making sex together. But, as my wife says, even the most dedicated pizza lover wants something other than pizza every now and again

 

One friend of mine is Bi, married and in a long term marriage. His wife knows that he is Bi. and accepts it to a certain degree.. That being he is allowed one person that they both agreed on. To be with. And only that one person. The second part of it is that she does not want to know anything about it. It works for them. They are comfortable with the arrangement that they worked out over the years. And to the best of my knowledge it has not caused any major rifts in their marriage.. The other person is also one of my friends and is also friends with his wife. It seems odd but it works for them.

 

Nope, I came out to my wife about 10 years into our marriage. She was okay with it as long as I didn't act on it. About 12 years later she got into my email and found out that I occasionally stepped out for some dick and divorced me. We are still good friends.