Any new sexual resolutions for 2011?

Have you ever seen Monkey Shines. It has one of the most imaginative uses of assistive technology I've ever seen.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

No, which Im sure Im all the better off for. Assistive technology? I have no idea what that is, but Im sure whatever it is, it'd be of no use to me at all.

 

Gonna persue this young thing thats been giving me the eye. But with my luck, doubtful anything will come of it.....She can't say yes if I don't ask....!

 

The way that you mention that 'you wouldn't want anything physically intimate' makes it sound as though you are perhaps a little more worried about things than anyone else is. But, if i'm honest, I can't quite figure out what the situation at hand is so maybe i'm sounding ridiculous right now!

I suppose, all in all, I am a hopeless romantic who cannot help but to believe there is someone for everyone, no matter what the situation is. As there is no such thing as certain or impossibility, so that's my argument and i'm sticking to it

 

The main charachter in the movie was parapalegic. He had one of the bars for hoisting himself in and out of bed. The girl he was with grabbed the bar and lowered herself onto his face.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

I have no idea what your situation is, but don't think of it as realistic or it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy! Whatever your situation, it will bring someone to you who is all the more special for seeing through whatever physical ailment you have to who you truly are. Don't give up hope!! its possible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

woo..i'm a little too optimistic and cheery on this new years day lol...

 

No, Im not "worried", Im just stating a fact. I wouldnt want to do anything that I wasnt comfortable with, or that didnt feel natural to me. And doing anything physically intimate with anyone while in my current physical state would feel neither natural, nor would I be comfortable with it. So it's just something I wouldn't do. Seeing as my physical state is never likely to be corrected, or at least to a point where I wouldnt be repulsed by physical contact, then that just by itself, is a huge obstacle. Then, even if you took that obstacle away, the hard fact is, no man is going to find me in the slightest bit attractive as merely a female. Which is all that would be acceptable to me for a partner to see me as.

I dont believe there is anyone out there for me, or if there is, the chances of me ever finding that person are so miniscule, that I may as well dismiss it as a possibility. Especially for the sake of my own emotional and mental well-being. Desiring something I know in my heart I can never have just causes too much pain.

@Reverand JC: I see..... Now I definitely know Im better off from not having seen that movie! And I was right, ir would be of no use to me. lol

 

Fair enough, I see where you are coming from. I hope I didn't offend you, was trying to whatsoever.

I suppose, it's true what they say

“The greatest ignorance is to reject something you know nothing about”

I doubt i'd know any better, I suppose it's misplaced positivity.

 

Nah, don't be silly, you didnt offend me at all. lol I know you were only trying to make me feel better. Which was nice of you, and I am grateful for.

I guess my situation is pretty unique, and certainly most people have probably never heard of my condition, or someone in my situation, let alone know what to say about it. I think for most people, yes, there is someone out there for them. And for many, even a multitude of potential people who will love them. For me... even in the very early stages of my adolescence, I knew love, romance, sex, those types of things were things that were never going to be a part of my life. And the older Ive gotten, the more sure I am of that fact.

 

absolutely not. there are prostitutes though.

 

Losing my virginity would be pretty cool
I hope I can finally find a great boy this year...I'm feeling kinda lonely right now :|

 

i would like to find a woman i would want to roll in the sheets with and actually do her (its been years since i was with a chick)
and im hoping to be able to have a threesome with two guys preferably who are bisexual and actually care about me so i am not overwhelmed during my first time.
this last year of sex made me realize i find the first few times i have sex with someone more exhilarating and satisfying than however long i will actually be with that person.
i also discovered my inner voyeur and there is no looking back now.

 

I hope u do too - but while I say don't lose it for the sake of losing it, also don't just save it up - just find someone nice and gentle and sensitive with a little experience. At least that's my advice but I have never been so lucky as to de-flower someone.

Good luck and take care,

Simon

 

prostitutes like flowers too, you know.

 

This flower is staying well and truly rooted, thank you!

As for prostitutes, a used tea bag would be of more use to me than one of those... lol

 

Im going to be looking more for a relationship, hopefully a specific one, I did the single thing 2010 after doing the relationship thing several years before, I enjoyed being single and such, but I want to look for someone that is similar to me. It has taken longer then I wanted to get over my ex, but even when I wasn't I knew it would not work, we are different people, I am into philosophy, metal, thought provoking conversation, thinking. She is interested in getting shitfaced and going to clubs. So I am hopefully going to make the effort to go out and meet new people that share more of my interests.

 

Slight rift there.

 

to really let loose and hold nothing back in bed

going well so far

 

My goal: to meet up with a woman who wants to have her way with me.

 

Ditto.