HI there, im a 23 year old male. I have had a really long and over complicated relationship with a women that ended a few months ago. We have a beautiful child together and im at the point in my life where i find some men attractive, though i can't see myself being in a male-male relationship for long, i would prefer to spend my life with a women at some point, but i would like to try it. I haven't let this out to anyone yet, other than the internet. my family and friends would not look at me the same again so i don't know what to do. Any thoughts on my situation would be helpful. Thanks B.
That sounds exciting! I'm glad you're not cheating on anyone. Do you need tips on how to meet bisexual men?
Well, take advantage of being single and start dating.. find some guys to date.. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you'll find you enjoy men a lot, never know until you try..
Yes, tips on meeting men would be awesome. I know i just need to get out there but i dont know where that is or what to do when i get there. I love to talk but some people are put off by the amount of talking i can do if you let me, like i said, anything would help.
You want to read your own posting here very carefully, and find your own answers. One You are just out of a very complicated relationship with a woman that gave you a child, and a divorce/separation/break up situation, too. You would prefer to spend your life with a woman, though? Two You find some men attractive, and though you would not want to have anything like a life-long relationship with a man, you would like to give it a try? Three No one really knows about your attraction to some men. Letting the family & friends on this secret would be difficult. Clear your mind. You are a young guy. You tried with a woman, and it did not last. Fine. Give the same chance to your m2m side. Stay open-minded. Do not impose any pre-conceived ideas onto your budding relationships. Neither friends nor family own you or your happiness. They have no claim to any knowledge regarding your intimate, sexual and private life. Neither their approval nor their consent is needed. Shake off all the self-imposed, largely imaginary restraints. Take good care of your kid. Meet whomever you find interesting and attractive, and enjoy the warmth of love in all its forms. Do not worry about the others. They have better things to do... KD
