Where are you from sweetheart, You sound like somebody I would like to get to know and hang out with!
i live in west virginia in a college town, basically the "city" of the whole state. i cant believe 12000 guys my age from out of town come in every year to go to school here and still...nothin.
VooDoo, I don't how well I would do based on your criteria but I can say this; I strive for many of the things you seem to seek. I don't do drugs and I live off of a burning desire to learn about the world and how to create something that can effect it in a positive way. I take myself quite seriously, despite the rather annoying habit of using hummer as a defense mechanism. I only wish that I could find away to connect to people who share some of these same values. Truth be known, though, I'm still hiding from the world. My idea of fun seems to be what you don't like as much: dubbed anime and computer games. Who knows, maybe one day I can return from my escapism or find someone who will escape with me. -Nicnac
Unfortunately, men REACH the age of reason at 35...then LOSE it at 36. Hmm....wish I could turn back the clock.
Well, sista, if you happen to figure out how to find that guy, let us know!! i had an amazing 'hippie' guy for 4 years. i always thought he was better, different, than all the other guys in town. the love of my life. then just about a month ago, he did this total 180, cheated on me, basically said "fuck you, i owe you no explanation" and left me...for no apparent reason....so i am with you on this, i feel as if there are no good guys and the ones that you think ARE good, are really nothing better than the rest. sorry to be so un-encouraging. i am just very very very heartbroken but good luck!
aww im sorry about your heartbreak, its the worst feeling ever. But you deserve better than that shit.
i think i qualify - mentally at least. but good luck finding a 20 yo that isnt hellbent on wasting a few years of his life on liquor and partying... although they are out there - but i wasnt too close to em, because i was wasting my life on liqour and partying. I would suggest some college clubs maybe. You might find someone in those circles. MY problem is that most of the women in this town are flouro pink and yellow airheads. Beach yuppies.
I feel your frustration, the most important aspect of a relationship in my opinion is intelligence. I remain drug free because I have goals that I am determined to realize. Therefore, I can concieve of having fun without the introduction of drugs. movies, charming restauraunts and just good conversation are all part of my idea of a good time what are yours?