My husband is afraid we'll "have" to spank our son at some point (he's only about 10 1/2 months right now) I REALLY don't believe in hitting children as punishment. Now Chris says he doesn't want to do it, but he says he doesn't think anything else would work for certain things. (Geez my mother was telling us you can 'spank' him now by smacking his thigh when he pulls hair or something, spank him now! Can you believe it? He obviously doesn't understand it hurts, he pulls his own hair much harder!), I was wondering if any of you know of good sites (with printable pages hopefully, this is my work computer) or books that explain why spanking is bad and not neccesary, maybe some sites or books about alternative discipline that works? Thanks!