Anal With Big Penis- Help Needed!

I have had anal with one other person before but he was so small that it went very smoothly. I had actually decided after that that I would only ever have anal if the guy had a small dick.

My current fuck buddy is very well endowed (both in length and girth) and he wants anal. At first I was like 'ha, never going to happen' but now I really want to me the girl to makes all this guys fantasies come true so I want to give it a go....

But how? Lots and lots of lube, right? But.. I'm just wondering if there is anything else we can do to help make it fit. He had tried and failed before. He has said he also tried to have sex with girls and he couldn't fit into their pussies, so it's going to take some work having anal with him..

Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

 

Might be a failed cause. I can not get into my wife without her having a lot of pain do to the size factor. You can try getting some anal toys that go up in size to streach you out.

 

I hadn't thought of using toys going up in size. I might try that when I can afford to get some new toys

 

Take a big dump.

 

RooRshack, genuinely not sure if you're serious or taking the piss.. Haha

 

I spoke to a friend about this and he said he ended up in hospital with a torn anus after having sex with a guy with a big dick...

Is this common?

 

Lots of lube. Toys do help a lot. Fingers work just as good too. The best thing to do is relax though...but it's also the hardest thing to do.

 

watched a porn "how to" once and they explained having an enema to clean it out, take a plastic syringe they used for kids meds and fill it full of lube and shoot a few right into you ass and then take it slow. You need lots of lube so putting some in there will really help.

Now as for size you will probably need to build up to it and it will take time. Butt plugs and time.

An ex of mine loved anal and one night she was getting back together with an ex and he decided to hurt her...he shoved and tore and she was in the hospital for a week with tears. She was in serious pain so you need to make sure to prep and trust this guy. If he has a hard time getting it into some pussies then you'll have a hard time.

 

I heard a woman once say, "You either get to have a big dick, or you get to have anal, you can't have both." Very rarely can you have your cake and eat it too.

I use to think I wanted a big dick when I was in high school, until I realized normal sized dicks get to do more stuff like anal and deep throating.

It can be done, but you will need to spend a lot of time learning to relax. As people said, get a good butt plug trainer set in diffrent sizes and work your way up. Make sure u use plenty of lube and go slowly.

Please be careful, you don't want to wind up with a fissure, they take FOREVER to heal and they are very painful.

 

So beyond the obvious of practicing with different gradually larger things and using lots of lube which a few people have already suggested here's what I do that helps a lot.

1. The kind of lube matters. For me the silcone ones work best since they stay slippery for a longer time on their own and your butt does't have any liquid to keep the water based ones slick.

2. When he starts to push into you, push out like you do when you poop.

Sounds nuts I know and at least for me I have to know I'm cleaned out down there to do it because otherwise I'm convinced from the sensation that I'm pooping everywhere.

It will feel a lot like you are pooping, but by pushing out your muscles in your but will open up a lot and goes in MUCH easier.

3. Get turned on by the idea of what you are letting him do to you. When I get into the dirtyness of the act, the submissiveness of it all. It's way easier to enjoy the whole experience.

 

OP: I have a fwb that's very well endowed, but we have lots of fun with anal. Aside from lots of lube, have him get you off a couple times first so you're more relaxed. Lots of oral sex, regular sex, touching, kissing, etc. It's also not a bad idea to wear a plug while doing all that as well. Not only does it feel fanatic, but it won't be as big of a shock when you let him get in there. Start slow, relax, focus on the ecstasy of it all, and enjoy.

 

I can claim my little monkey is on the big side too...However, I have anal sex with many girls and none of them was a failure..never...!!

SS is my secret....Slowly but Surely.

Take it easy and do not rush things...lots and lots of foreplay and lots and lots of Ass preparation.

Lube is important but not everything for sure..right position is even more important.

I had anal with so many girls even without any lube...the right position did the trick.

The best position and easiest of all is to lay on your left side and bend legs.

This position is used by doctors when they need to examine this area as the colon is curved to the to left..so being in this position makes cock insertion easier.

Take a warm shower before having sex...this helps in relaxing the muscles in all you body including your ass hole.

Start with one finer,,then two, then 3 fingers...as much as you can take...with lots of lube...you can use butt plugs if you have..

He needs to warm your ass....having a massage is the best in this case..

When you are ready for the real action...it is penetration time..just relax..

Use ur hands...help him do not let him do all the job.

Open your buttocks and spread your ass...he will be busy with lubing his cock and inserting him with the right angel.

Take a deep breath to relax your muscles and you will find that his cock is sliding so easily deep in your ass.

Let me know how it goes with you.. :clown:

 

The bigger the better

 

agreed... i seem to seek those kinds of men out too heh but i might have bitten off more than i can 'chew' now lol

 

We can infer from that you are not jewish

 

my ex and I used a desensitizer lube...she still had anal orgasms but made penertation easier.

 

So ladies then long but not thick??? I am nearly 9 long, but as skinny as my FB husband who is like 5 or 6

 

Me and my girlfriend have anal most days, I'm on the bigger side and she's quite petite so it does cause some problems. We've experimented with different types of lube and plugs but her been relaxed makes the most difference, valentine's day morning for example we had anal no lube and it was great but other days with lube seems not to go in.

That said we're still looking for a good way for anal as I can still only get a couple of inches in without hurting her.

 

Why would you do this? Pain = not doing something correctly. You need to keep the ability to feel that pain, so you know whether things are going right or not.