Anal, whats the point?

True....True....

I keep getting good belly laughs from all of you. I luv it~! All of you are so down to earth and open-minded.

 

Yes, it does happen to other men and women. Getting the urge to feel an erotic sensation that has given you pleasure before is quite natural. We want to do it again. Exploring together can be very bonding also.

 

Penetrating the anus can lead to full-body orgasms for both sexes. Even if the orgasm started or was caused in the genitals. There are so many nerve endings there that are sensitive and close to the spine.

It's also amazing how some women squirt with anal penetration as wingedtriangle said his girl does. Some women say that anal entry rubs there g-spot very nicely through the vaginal walls from behind.

 

Yeah! You gotta luv a girl that always in the mood to get fingered!

 

What's the point, you ask?

Our largest sex organ is our brain, so it all starts there. All of us male and female have formed subconcious opinions about what we find to be arousing or not. This has formed over the years through sexual and non-sexual experiences, our environment, end eperimentation. Some have just found that stimulating the anus is OK in their minds and even erotic.

Once people accept it mentally, they may try it. Many will like it, but some experience pain. Pain usually comes from lack of preparation, understanding, or desire.

Then, obviously if people like it, they try it again.

Once people decide what is erotic for them, and what is not, they usually stick to that frame of mind. It is rare, but some can later be introduced to things in a more postive way that will create desire in them. Maybe it was originally a hidden curiosity anyway.

All of the nerve endings there, as has been metioned already, provide a different, yet very sexual stimulation.

Last, some just like to break taboos, be different, explore, and have no boundaries. It's total bodily acceptance!

 

Quite simply, there is no poo. No poo people either.To even mention poo is to confess the self unknowledgeable! With any common sense approach, there is no poo. The colon is self cleaning. OK? Anal sex was used in prehistoric and since times, as the oldest known form of birth control. Humans being what they are, somewhere along the way people discovered ways to enjoy it. Sex ain't rocket science, you know. Nerve endings abound back there, tight holding on the penis (or finger) provides glorious friction for both partners, and the excitement of chasing love in forbidden places knows no equal! The brain knows how to deal happily with nerves, friction and excitement. The only thing the brain cannot deal with is uninformed bias! The emotion ("the poo, people, the poo!") of blind rejection! Love need not be dull!

 

I beg to differ.

As for the point, some people think it's really hot, feels great. So really you wont know untill you try. I have never felt a pain so great, so, never again for this girlie.

 

It must have been the lack of preparation for me, since the understanding and desire were there ...

Not everyone who dislikes anal, dislikes it because they are ignorant or repressed or whatever. I personally don't think it's "wrong" at all -- and I'm sure a number of other people who posted here are in the same boat. Also, the thought of a full-body orgasm is amazing ...

My only problem is that it just HURT! :&

By the way: I've heard heroin can give a full-body orgasm too, but heroin isn't for everyone ... and I'm sure no one's going to criticize people who don't want to do THAT.

 

It seems the men think its all that and the women just confirm my worries.

 

Anal for men is really hot and really tight, and once women get used to it and are nice and relaxed, anal is a major turn-on. The hottest sex I have ever had included anal, but always before the anal action started. Two different girls have squirted when I went down on then, I think because they knew what was coming.

The actual anal penetration itself, with practice, isn't that difficult. The lady needs to be well aroused and you need to use some lubricant. Its more a confidence thing, and anal practice seems to make girls more confident.

 

Uh ... if you call crying in pain during the actual intercourse, and then walking around with a limp for three days afterwards, "confidence-building" ... then yeah. It builds a lot of confidence.

I guess if I "practiced" more it would be fun ... but the pain in the meantime might not be entirely worth it.

(And yeah, we followed all the "steps", including getting waaaay drunk before hand. It still hurt bad enough to make me want to stop ... and I'm fairly masochistic!)

 

no anal for me, ever!

 

Why, Citygirl, I'm surprised. I thought you were up for anything, once! With a good lover, proper excitement, gentle message of the sphyncter followed by a few days of stretching of muscles - your 'once' might turn to acceptance. No, not acceptance! Appropriation. To become another way of enjoyment of life's rich variety of sexual experience. Sex should not, and need not, ever be painful. All that's needed is an at-necessary-times gentle lover! Love that Chicago accent!

 

Fastswitch,


I can tell you, I will never try anal, as long as I live! lol
my other hole is very tight, that I don't have to get it in my backdoor!
my vagina isn't enough for a man?

 

Sure! A little variety spices up life, grandma used to say. She prob never tried anal either. Either way, I still love the Chicago accent in your vibes.....*sighs*

PS she also taught me to "never say never!"

 

So, the message I'm getting from a lot of the posts here is that girls who don't want it poked up their behinds are considered prudish and boring.

WHAT?! Are y'all crazy?

For some people, anal sex just HURTS. And for some of those some people, that is a bad thing.
And face it, the first few times someone has something shoved up their ass, it is PAINFUL. It takes some getting used to, and for some people it's not worth it.

So please don't tell anyone that they are prudish or boring because they don't want that kind of pain.

Thanks, folks.

 

I know a little variety is good, but anal is a major one. I know I should never

say never, but I can assure you that I mean never in this case!
glad you still like the Chicago accent!

 

Most people don't "normally" like the thought of having things put up their ass. Whether they're male or female. It's a "bad thing" to happen.

And I think that fact goes a long way towards the attraction. Our own asshole is something dirty, private, forbidden, and nothing to do with sex. And I reckon our attraction to our partners' assholes is based directly on this principle.

There seems to be a common (perhaps latent) sexual desire in both sexes to explore what is disgusting, and forbidden. And since we're all so guarded about our assholes, the asshole seems like the perfect target for anyone wishing to 'violate' their partners, or break down barriers of intimacy.

The very fact that we are revulsed by our own assholes fuels our attraction to our partners' assholes. If ours weren't so 'dirty', we wouldn't care about our partners' assholes so much. (And because we don't actually see our partners shitting, their assholes never seem quite as dirty as our own!)

I often wonder which is the truth: is the truth that assholes are dirty and disgusting, and our attraction to them is merely a delusion. Or is the truth that — since all sexual contact compromises hygiene — ass play is a totally natural facet of sex, and modern humans form 'unnatural' fears of our own assholes, which counters the natural desire to explore them?

Anyway... who cares? Bend over.

 

Clearly you are a thinker, Dizzyman.

I dunno, I personally don't think they're very clean (at least the vagina is self-cleansing), but even if I knew someone who had NEVER TAKEN A SHIT I would not really want to go exploring. Not out of fear, just because there are so many more beautiful places on the human body.
(Anyone ever spent time REALLY touching a human face? Feeling all the bones and muscles and contours? I have ... it is so funny, but so lovely too.)

So not that I look down on people who have ass sex -- I think they're lucky, in their own way. I would just rather stay out of it myself, unless I change my mind under the circumstances again.

Perfect end to your point. I think I like you.

 

Sunny, we would have fun together, anyway you like.