Have you ever watched a porn and your partner (male or female) asked to try anal sex because the were turned by watching it?
I don't find anal in porn that hot but love anal. Nothing beats having both holes filled with some clit action.
I prefer vaginal porn to anal porn, but I love having anal sex more so than vaginal. With anal, I don't have to hold back and can fill her body with my cum, without the lingering fear of pregnancy dampening my enjoyment, and immediately making me regret it. If I wanted to knock her up or didn't mind if it happened, I would perhaps feel differently. But one child, as much as I love him, is enough work for me right now.
Yes, my wife and I often watch a bit of porn to get into the mood before we move onto foreplay. We started anal sex when we were still dating many years ago because of what we saw on screen. Since then, we have added spanking, rimming, deepthroat, and ATM to our regular routines. We have also teased each other about adding a 3rd person, but we both know that's only in fantasy (too many issues/problems for us to make it real). My favorite is to fuck her tight ass until I'm nearly ready to cum, then pull out and fuck her mouth/throat until I explode.