I was watching You Tube videos, and as I was doing a search, as life on the internet goes, a video suggestion came up regarding anal pleasures for men... and being a guy who happens to enjoy anal play, I watched it. But what I loved about this particular video was that it was coming from the perspective of a straight man who seemed to me to be very in touch with himself. (ha - pun not intended) He encouraged men to explore and not be afraid to find out the pleasures of anal play. I wondered how many straight men, as he said, are missing out on this because they are afraid it will make them gay or that it will reflect poorly on their masculinity... So, I hope it is OK to post here for others to consider.
Experience itand enjoy it, it won't make you gay for sure! I read a book years ago, about how gettong better orgasm for her and for him. I was teenager, so very unexperienced! But there I read about the male P spot, and how to stimulate from the perineum.. Growing up and reading more, i discovered that external stimulation was just a small part, and I tried with a finger by myself (not successfully to be honest!) Luckly I had a gf willing to play and experiment, and finally i had my first real prostate orgasm with her finngering my ass during a blowjob. This led to additional playing, fingers, toy and strapon/pegging. We are not the same, try and find your way of having pleasure! Maybe you will like, maybe not, but never stop trying!
Too many “straight” men don’t know what they’re misssing. I was fortunate that my fiancé/wife helped bring out the pleasure for me. Finger(s), vibrator, dildo, strap on. Doesn’t make me gay….. just enjoy the pleasure.
Mine too, however it was a Female who taught me how good anal play felt, giving and getting. There was no turning back once I discovered the Amazing feelings that she gave me. When she was done taking my anal virginity, she wanted it , good and hard.
My wife has inserted the Aneros in my butt and I love it! It enhances the orgasm, probably makes me cum more. Not sure. She puts it in me while sucking my penis then moves in and out a little till I lose it!
My first serious girlfriend slipped a finger in me and found my prostate and made me cum from that and stroking me. That led to her dildo and eventually she coaxed me into a threesome with a guy, that really changed me.
I want some of that. My wife says she will but doesn't. She uses vag dilators so I can eventually get my cock back in. Maybe I should join her and practice opening my ass for the time she fills me with a dildo. We have some but they haven't been used for over a decade.
