Hi all, I like to put something up my backside or have my wife do it, which she occasionally does. Does not give me an orgasm, I just like to be impaled. Depth is not an issue, I can carefully put something up my sigmoid colon and have dildos of 20' up my rump when there is enough time (and lube). Where I hit a limit is width. Ok, I had dildos of up to 3' width up my backside, but that is where it stops. I tried pyramide shaped opbects and ones, that gradually get hicker. But at 3', thats it. It feels as if my ass bones are in the way. Is that possible? Or is this just my sphincter and I just have to stretch it some more? Anyone with a similar experience? Suggestions?
A three inch diameter, as given in OP, is a 9 inch circumference. That's larger than a soda can. Give your muscles a break, or they will fail. Spin thers aren't designed for that much variance.
Since I've been practicing a LOT of anal play, I find I have better muscle retention in my asshole. Getting loose and being loose is only an issue for the period immediately following anal play. And hour after the act, I'm tight as a drum. And I bet I can squeeze coal into diamonds with my man pussy.
Everyone has a different body shape so insertions will work differently for everyone. As an example for me, my ass stretching isn't the issue, it's the bone structure. A completely solid object with no give, I can insert about 3.5" in diameter, maybe a tiny bit more to 3.75". I have how ever inserted objects around the girth of 4"-4.25" since they have some flexibility. So I'd say if you are still looking to get something larger in there it will need to have a softer material to make it in easier and comfortably. Also, I'd like to say that I've been shoving things up my ass if it's clear in the rear very regularly for about 17 years or so. With 3.5" nearly daily for the last 10 years and I don't have any any issues with "how does shit not fall out of your ass". You'd be surprised how resilient that back door can be. Take things slow, work your way up to them and you can safely take larger objects with minimal risk. Unless you have poor genetics as well can be the case I guess too. If done properly I think the only way you'll damage your ass is if it's done intentionally.
