Just wondering how soon into a relationship have you done anal. I have only been seeing my GF a few weeks, only slept with her 3 times and she tells me she wants to try anal next time.
4th times a charm right? Ok well my situation is similar but different seeing is how I am a TS woman and a total bottom. As a general rule I do not give it up on the first date naturally. With me and my boyfriend / fiance I made him wait for a good month and a half before I let him have sex with me. He also had to work for it too but it was worth it and we have been together for 6 years now and show no signs of splitting. Now since I am obviously lacking certain female parts at this time our first sex was anal of course but lets say I was a genetic female, I would still make a guy wait and try anal when I was ready to do it. With that said it can be safe to assume that your girl is ready to try it and you can proceed keeping in mind her limitations and respect when she says stop, go deeper, faster, or slower. You will be able to work out what is comfortable for her as far as positions and rythem and such also.
the woman has to trust you because it would cause a lot of pain. I would never push but I've seen it in the first few weeks for the ones that really enjoyed it.
Why does it matter how long you've dated? I can fall in love in an instant. If it feels right, then go for it. If it doesn't, then don't.
I don't think anal is one of those things that can happen too soon. I mean you've had sex with her - it's not like anal is 'more special' than normal sex. And, bringing up the topic early is always a good idea. Anal has always been something I've enjoyed so I like to make sure the girl I'm seeing is open to it before it gets too serious. If she'll let me play with her bum it's normally a good sign. Just do your research and take it slow.
We are still very much in the discovery phase of our relationship. We have been very open and honest about everything which I love. I'm starting to realise that she is a lot more sexed and sexually adventurous than me. She is also a lot more experienced. I think she could be a nyphm but I'm not complaining.
I've had anal sex on a first date. I've been in a serious relationship which lasted years without it. There is no "How to" manual. Everybody, every relationship you enter is different with different expectations and different outcomes.
thats great, just buy some good anal lubricant and go for it few weeks into the relationship sounds just right.
I think a couple months sounds about right for me. Hang on to her! She sounds like a freak. Those are the best ones lol
I remember I told my husband while we were dating that I wanted anal the second time we slept together.
wtf are you talking about?...people that equate pain and ass-fucking are not doing it right did you read the part about she is asking him for anal.....i'm thinking the trust plateau has been surpassed also op-you won the gf lottery....enjoy the ass
