Any advice appreciated. I’m dying to bottom for the first time. I’ve tried the ‘relax’ thing, tons of lube, water based, silicone, oil, Vaseline.... I can get 3 fingers no problem. Any toy, however, as small as one starting at 3/8” tapered up to 1”, might as well be three inches thick and covered in tree sap. And once I get it in, forget sliding it around, and coming out feels like my intestines are coming with it. I’d say I’m way too tight, but after being able to slide fingers in so easy, that can’t be. Does a greased up dick slide back and forth that much easier? Wtf? Frustrating...
Nah, a full on cock now isnt gonna do u any good. The only advice is to just keep tryin with smalller toys til u feel comfy with them. Dont give up!
Sounds like you're getting very comfortable with fingers (Which is great!), but still uncomfortable with toys. Comfort and relaxation is key. And you can NEVER use too much lube!! It took me a few months of play to move from fingers to toys. Now I can't get enough! I need a good pegging. Best of luck!
Get the right lube, also you can get relaxing gels. Another tip, when you're pushing it in, use your muscles to push it out, it opens up the sphincter. Don't give up, work you way up to the big one eventually.
Yeah it's weird but if you push like your trying to poop it will open you up to take it. Maybe try getting one of those lube injector things to get more lube inside you as well as on your toys
Lube-shooter helps a lot -- the biggest thing is to go s-l-o-w. Your spinchter muscles are very strong , but they tire quickly. Just put firm pressure against yourself and hold it, increasing slowly as you feel it yielding. When the head of you dildo stsrts to intrude a bit, give yourself short , gentle inward pushes, going just a little deeper as you feel your hole accepting it -- suddenly, it will snap through and up into you with very little discomfort ...
