I recently decided that I wanted to try anal sex with my boyfriend and to my surprise I absolutely loved it!!! I loved how full it made me feel n I loved feeling dominated by him. He was so great and gentle at first but I wanted it harder. I can't stop thinking about it and now I have so many dirty fantasies about him filling my ass till it hurts. Does that make me a whore or crazy? Also, I want to get some toys for my new found pleasure. Does anyone have any good suggestions? I want something that will stretch my little butthole, maybe something that vibrates. I just don't know where to start.
No, your not a whore or crazy at all - your just wanting & willing to be more adventurous in your sexual desires & trying them. We all fantasise about trying new sexual things and wonder if partners will be willing to try & accomplice them. Even if it's just one time you try it & then decide its not what you thought it would be. It's nice to increase one's variety in sexual activities & not just the same thing all the time. It can be boring at times with much variety.
It depends how far open you want to stretch your butt hole - it can cause tearing if stretched too far open. Be careful & don't go forcing things in it that cause a lot of pain. Just increase the size of toys you put in it gradually - take your time & don't rush things - be patient in inserting larger toys with plenty of lube for easier inserting.
I grew up in a Christian home so there were alot of taboo things regarding sex. I love exploring my sexuality but I have to get over a bit of guilt at times. Probably why I'm 30 and just tried anal. Now it's opened the floodgates to explore some long time fantasies. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk
Yeah, I'm pretty careful. I used to work in medicine so I've seen what can happen. I just like the feeling of being so full. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk
My wife was bought up in a religious family as well & I'm a lot more sexually adventurous in bed than she wants to be - I think certain things I have suggested to her that she may like to try - but she disapproves of some of them because of them being taboo in her beliefs. What other sexual acts do you have as fantasies ?
Maybe buy some butt plugs in various sizes & gradually try them in stages & not just forcing the biggest one in first. That may be your best start to anal stretching / pleasuring ? The widest thing I have managed to penetrate my butt hole with was 2 inches thick & it was a Durex lube container . That's the largest so far, butt I want to try something slightly bigger in girth thou.
Well you saw my other post about getting gangbanged, so there's that. I also love being dominated, the loss of control is such a turn on. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk
I wanna get some kind of butt plugs of different sizes but I just don't know where to start. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk
You can buy them in sets of 2 or more in a packet either in your local adult toy store or online. If you want to try some other alternative objects, there are cheaper types & other things you can use that may suit your budget ?
I don't have the nerve to go into an actual store so I just have to do some online browsing. I've seen a few things that look fun but haven't committed to buying anything yet. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk
Depends how much you want to spend to. They can be used vaginally as well - just tell the store owner you have a different use intended for them.
get a few different sized dildos to start, see how that works out. plugs are a bigger challenge since they stay inside - and plugs that are too long can be uncomfortable - width is usually the turn on for me, the stretch making me feel full if you are doing anal with your bf already then get one the size of his cock to start and maybe one slightly larger to see how it works out - dont have to keep it in for long or do a full on pounding with it like sex with a guy might be, it's different when you have full control of the object, can go a bit larger see how you like it.
No it certainly does not make you crazy. Many women like a little domination in bed. A little pain from anal can be a great turn on both for the man and the woman. A lot of pain, THAT is a huge turn off. My wife has told me over and over again, the ache of having her ass filled to the edge of pleasure and pain makes her cum harder than vaginal.
