Anal doggy style HURTS!!

My guy like anal. I try it and love it. Missionary or sideways YAHOO!!! Doggy is NOOO so plenty painful. Legs closed, legs open, crouching down. Altering the angle any way possible still a no. Some angles are more uncomfortable than hurtful and non pleasurable. I want more anal I even want it doggy. We also not do it often. I hope one day to do it everyday one week and last day maybe dog style will be nice. Any advice from women or men on the receiving end would appreciated very much

 

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Doing anal in doggy style hurt. Since this post did rear entry lying on the side. Was uncomfy for the first minute. Taking out and dipping in again it got better. Was amazing. Hoping that we figure out the right angle to have pleasurable anal while on all fours. Any tips are welcome

 

I do not understand. Do you have any advice?

 

Yes always use lots of Lube or oil

 

First post just sounded extremely troll like. Stick around here for a bit and you’ll recognize the pattern of “new members”.

If doggie style isn’t comfortable, adjust.

 

I am new member only joined because I did not retrieve thread that covered my question so I joined to ask. I am adjusting and doing what work for us. I just wanted tips because one day I just want anal doggy to feel nice too.

 

Hi @sharpelf!

What kind of pain is there in doggy for you? Does it hurt around the entrance of the anus, or deeper inside? Is it an ache, or a sharp stabbing kind of pain?

 

@cheddarfilibuster
anus always uncomfy in the start any position. in doggy its a stabbing pain when deeper inside. THen we go slower or i have to lower myself to get better angle but then still an ache. I play with clit same time but its not making pleasure. problem is we do not do anal often so I want to try more and see if i need to stretch because i return to snug very fast so always uncomfortable in the first few minutes and i want that to stop too

 

@sharpelf So, it sounds like he's running into a bend in your rectum or colon because he can get in deeper more easily with doggy. Try having him gently push up against the point where it hurts and just sit in that position for a moment with him very gradually pushing deeper. After a minute or two the pain might fade as the bends sort of straighten out temporarily, and if it does, see if it gets better once he starts moving again.

On the topic of doing anal more often, I highly, highly recommend making it a regular activity, at least 3 times a week, and it will get much easier and feel much better. If you only do it so often, you need to do a lot more warmup and preparation for it to not hurt, which is why it hurts or is uncomfortable at the start for you. It's like only going to the gym once a month—you get a lot more sore and worn out than if you do it multiple times a week! The more regularly you do anal, the easier it gets and the better it feels.

 

I'm going to restrain myself from opening this with how I wanted to (which was," Dear Idiots"). So let's just start with an explanation. The last part of the colon, known as the "Sigmoid", is only a few inches long. Then it takes a sharp turn toward the left hip, then north to the "Descending" colon. All this is connected by tissue known as the Omentum with many blood vessels. If, as you say, there is a "stabbing pain deeper inside", STOP! STOP! STOP! You are fooling with and toying around with SERIOUS internal injury. Good God. does no one at least google diagrams of our internal anatomy before trying things??? Anal takes getting used to, yes, but sharp pain is another story!!! Keep things simple and reasonably comfortable. If other positions work, stay with them.

 

If there is sharp stabbing pain with anal, it's always important to stop and reassess.

The bend into the colon can be straightened temporarily with slow, gentle pressure that shouldn't hurt. If it hurts, stop. If it just hits the wall, gently press against it and adjust angles and it may pop through and straighten out. Then, sex past that point can occur without pain or injury generally. But you have to be careful and stop if it hurts or if there's any bleeding.

 

No worries. Pain is a sign that something is wrong. I did google diagrams before my first time. This is why I am trying to find a way to make it work without pain. So we just do sideway spooning or missionary. I am not going to be obssessed with it and then have bad injury after. Thank you for your medical advice.

 

You're welcome.

 

Do you realize what you've just said?? And I quote, "...it may pop through..." WHAT? The wall of the colon?? And then, "...if there's any bleeding.." By that time, there's been a LOT more damage done than a small anal sphincter tear which sometimes happens. Use caution, not enthusiasm.

 

You're being obtuse and trying to insult everyone instead of understanding.

Pop through past the bend at the end of the rectum into the colon.

By bleeding, I'm referring to small traces of blood from micro tears or abrasions. It's an early sign of doing something wrong and you should stop if you ever encounter it.

 

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Ok, cheddar, I think we're into just terminology differences here. When you said, "it may pop through", that wording is what spooked me and where I took issue. See why I was concerned? Might have been better to use maybe "ease through the bend" or "move things around" or some other phrase? I think we're on the same page here, just using different images. As to bleeding, note that in context it was still related to "pop through". That would be worrisome, agreed? And by the way, also note that I did, in fact, acknowledge and discount minor sphincter tears.

Perhaps I should have acknowledged out that you did say pain was a warning sign. My bad. I may have over-reacted to the words "pop through" after seeing other postings where people think the anus is just a hole into an empty bag.

Instead of attacking that I'm, "being obtuse and trying to insult everyone", try looking back at what you and I both wrote, and seeing how it could have been interpreted. In no way, did I ever "try to insult" anyone.

 

So just to update. I think I just snap back too easily and I am not doing anal often enough. First time entry is always uncomfy and gets better by reinsertion many times until one feels good. Only then will we start making the pace more fast. Reinsertion is diffcult.... he says its too tight but then he always says not now tomorrow and putting off each time I want. So new plan is that I will buy a plug that I will wear in the day and try to get in "spontaneaous manner" this way for entry I will be ready. I got rid of ol plug which had 3 balls. I could not walk around with it. Im just scared of cumming on myself all day with plug in my ass walking around. I m hoping this works sso I can do some semen therapy while im at it.
Determined

 

Good for you to be so determined! My wife and I love it. Neither one of us enjoyed vaginal as much. The sensations are amazing! One of these days I hope to be on the receiving end (with the real thing).

We start out with us spooning while lying on our side. I then maneuver my wife onto her back while I shift perpendicular to her. I am now literally fucking her sideways. Final move is to have her now lie on her opposite side while I shift around a bit more. My feet are now behind her head while her heels are in front of my face. We are both still lying sideways. I can hit her g spot this way and the pressure on my cock is amazing. She unfortunately cannot cum either vaginally or anally, but she comes a lot closer through anal.