I’m just looking for someone to relate to I don’t have a question but just a feeling... a really strong feeling lately. Iv been masterbating since I was about 10 and experimenting with anal since I was about 12. Currently I am 22 I am straight, I like girls and have done research and have found that straight men do like it in the butt and that anal play is not strictly for gay men. However I have been having this feeling lately that I just want my fiancé to fuck me doggy style. I want to buy her a strap on and have her fuck me. Iv always had my eye on an ejaculating dildo that shoots lube into you with a pump and that just makes me so horny at the thought of. Recently I have found a wall that I can suction my dildo to and wrap my legs around either side, I’m able to get on all fours and ride it and it is so hot. Iv been waking up during the night and have been really horny. I have a huge boner and my butt is tingling. Whenever I think about anal my butt starts to tingle. I have no idea why, anyone else have that happen? Iv talked to my fiancé about getting a strap on and having her fuck me and she’s said that she doesn’t want to yet because she doesn’t know what she wants yet and I respect that. I wouldn’t force her to do any thing she didn’t want to. I am most certainly happy with taking care of my needs myself. Iv always liked anal and have always have had these feelings but lately they have been out of control. I’ll be at work and I’ll just think “I can’t wait to get home and destroy my butt hole today”. And whenever I masterbate with my butt I don’t even touch my penis. It’s just all anal and sometimes the sessions last up to a half hour. Does anyone else have these feelings?
You're not alone. It's way more common than you think. Continue pleasuring yourself and not pushing her. Hopefully she'll slowly find a little comfort to try something very minor with you. Maybe a small vibrator etc... Hoping she'll go from uncomfortable, directly to giving you the good pegging you need, is at the same odds as winning the lottery. Best of luck!
Not an obsession but there was a time my wife and I were having a lot of threesomes with guys. She even talked me into letting a guy fuck me with four of her friends watching. Not easy, I was still a little shy then but I did it and liked it.
Continue doing what you are doing to satisfy your needs while keeping the conversation open with her but don't pressure her to much about it. Ask her if you can dildo your ass while she sucks you off? This is how my wife started and now she loves pegging me.
Wouldn't call it an addiction, but we both got in to it. She was the first woman that came just from a good butt fuck. Of course turnabout is fair play, and she started pegging me. LOVED IT!
Like others have already said you're not alone. I'm exactly the same. My partner actually suggested a strap on after wanting to do more to pleasure me and knowing I liked anal. But she then sadly decided she's not entirely comfortable with it. So we've had it for a while and not used it. Hopefully one day.
I guess I'm lucky that my wife has embraced my bi-sexuality and loves participating with he and I as she sucks my cock while he fucks me in the ass.
You're not just lucky, you're blessed. It's a wonderful thing when love, trust, understanding, and a whole lot of fun and pleasure can cum together.
I asked my girl if I could fuck her in the ass. She said ok but you first. We bought an 18 inch double headed dildo. Long story short it was great for both of us. She thought it was hot fucking me with the other end in her and she would grab the dildo and let it fuck me while in my ass. It was like taking turns. She never was ok with me in her butt but I didn't care it felt sooooo good that thats all I wanted. When we split I was tempted to go and pull a train in a gay bath house. It is a very addictive feeling, none better.
My present wife doesn't have any interest in receiving anal so a "double-dong" is not for us. She all but orgasms helping and watching me getting fucked in the ass. She is a "cum-slut" like myself so she's quick to clean up and always willing to share in a passionate kiss.
My girl hates anal too. I wasn't clear in my comment. One end is in her pussy the other in me. Maybe your wife will go for that. Two fucks for the price of one.
Yep, right there with you.Started about the same age as well. Ended up bisexual and have had more guys than girls. At 58 years I still ride my plugs and dildos 3-4 times a week at least. Sometimes I cum, sometimes not.
It wasn't until I was 40 . A Beautiful Older Woman took my anal virginity many years ago.Never looked back.My Wife and I were always open to exploring. When she closed the Border to her, she never hesitated to continue giving me analand enjoyed making me squirm around with a dildo in my asshole. I would lavish in the sensations as she fucked me with every toy we had. Things change as you get older. I'm still addicted to anal, but a majority of it is to drain my prosate. I;ll take what I can get. You never loose the pleasurable feeling or desires.
There is a possilility of an anal addict become unable to perform vaginal sex. He accepts only the tightness of the rear entry. When it occurs there is a reason for preocupation: problems of a couple relationship. When a guy practices vaginal and anal sex with satisfaction it's all OK for both.
