I’ve been happily married for 3 years, and the sex is fine. My husband and his first wife were swingers, which is our situation too, though it did take time for me to be persuaded into it. Trouble is I’ve now become infatuated with a particular couple, or rather the guy. He’s an incredible lover. He has no difficulty making love to both his wife and me numerous times throughout the night. What’s had a profound effect on me, however, is I’ve never before known a guy who ejaculates just so much cum. I’ve no idea why I’m so obsessed with it... the quantity, color, odor, texture, taste and the need to swallow it. It’s now constantly on my mind. I dare not tell my husband. Has anyone here had such an obsession like this which just stays on your mind constantly? It’s driving me mad.
Why can't you tell your husband? Since he's an experienced swinger, he should know that ESPECIALLY in the early stages it's really important to have a talk the day after every encounter. Likes, dislikes, feelings, etc. Things rarely work out long term when one person has to be "persuaded" to swing. Best of luck to you though.
As swingers, my husband set a rule for us - it's only about sex, nothing more. But somehow this couple and I have gone beyond that, unfortunately, and behind my husband's back too. It shouldn't have happened this way but it has. The guy's wife tells me her husband's freakish 'orgasmic performances' have similarly affected many other partners in the same way it has me. To her it's extremely sexually gratifying her husband has this effect on me, as it has on all the others before me. Truth is my husband really envies this guy's sexual ability yet is turned on by it. I know how he feels watching this guy having sex with me. So knowing how he feels, I just can't risk hurting him in any way by telling him the real truth, which I know would also break up our really good sexual relationship with this couple. That's why, although my husband and I do discuss the sex, I daren't even mention the truth about my obsession.
