Hi my name is joão I am 18 years old and I am from Brazil, my dadd and my mom are from Portugal, region of the alantejo I'm a little embarrassed to say I'm a virgin. But that's the truth. I've never kissed a girl or had sex though, maybe it's because of my weird fetish, I don't want to lose my virginity to a young girl, I want to lose my virginity to 2 or more women over 30. This is weird? sorry is the question is "silly" or "embarrassing"
Not at all Joao..... whatever desire excites you. And many guys still virgins at 18, that was when I lost my virginity with a girl, and then with a guy at 19. Don't stress....and if you fancy older women then many will be honoured and delighted to give themselves to you. Simon
You and your husband look like a couple who have a lot of fun haha. I think you're right, I'm going to keep looking for an older woman to take my virginity, because older women attract me A LOT, and I don't want to have sex with a girl as long as I don't lose my virginity to an old woman And congratulations to Jack, he seems to know what he's doing HAHAHA
Thanks Simon, I was a little scared that I was "losing my youth" as I'm still a virgin. you know, my parents are very overprotective and they only let me out of the house if I go with them
A shame ....every parent should recognise natural teenage desires.....are they very religious or is there a reason that they perhaps disapprove of sex outside marriage? Why are they so protective.....do you live in a dangerous area of Brazil? Are you an only child? As I said, don't stress you have your life ahead of you but at your age you are perhaps at your sexual peak and you should be having fun and enjoying and discovering sexual and emotional pleasure Simon
My parents are very religious, they are extremely convinced Catholics. I live in a quiet area of Brazil, I live in a small town in the South of Brazil, here it is peaceful and we have not registered serious crimes for 5 years They are overprotective because they don't trust me, they won't let me walk alone in my neighborhood, I love my parents, but I want some freedom, I want the right to leave the house at least once a week,
Yeah I'm not asking to "live mind-blowing sexual adventures" I just want to go to a restaurant near my house and talk to some friends, that's all. They also crack down on my sex life, every week my mom checks my computer history to see if I've looked up porn, and spying on my facebook friends list to make sure I don't talk to any girls
I'm so sorry for you Joao......I don't know your circumstances but perhaps you should consider leaving home as their behaviour sounds too stifling and unacceptable. Do they have any reason why they should not trust you? Perhaps they had a very strict upbringing themselves...... parents often mimic behaviour they learnt Idk but perhaps your Priest would be more pragmatic and talk with your parents. Simon
I don't think I've done anything wrong, I always fulfill my obligations and I never go against their word, but next year I'm going to college, my parents like it or not.
Good, it definitely sounds that you need to live your own life away from your parents. I read that you have a sister...older/younger? Could it be because if her that your oarents are over protective? I wish you good luck and hope you can break free soon and enjoy life as someone of your age should. Simon
My older sister is a rebellious girl, and she never follows my parents' rules, and my brother is still a child. My sister married a Swede and a germany and them lives in Porto Alegre (capital of Rio Grande do Sul).