Am I Transgendered?

Discussion in 'Transexual and Transgender' started by Doamie, Jan 1, 2015.

  1. Doamie

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    Ok so recently ive been struggling with my gender. I often feel like i would be happier in s female body than in my current male one. I also remember when i was a kid i wanted to be a girl and was always attracted to feminine things; rather than standard masculine things for boys at that age. but im not sure how solid these feelings are and im also afraid of the back lash of being transgendered. so basically what im asking here is if anyone could offer me some advice? or something like it? thanks ^^
     
  2. 6-eyed shaman

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    Gender is a social construct. Just because you're a male who is drawn to what society deems as feminine, that doesn't mean you were accidentally born with a penis.
     
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  3. Aerianne

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    Try living as gender neutral.

    If you like that, try living as female.

    Gender Fluid is a cool concept that's floating around somewhere in between.
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

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    If you have to ask the question now, well that is the answer
     
  5. chellycellhot97NYCMiaCA

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    all the many people infatuated with his behalf. As the story goes his momento to his passage was prolong with transgender exicment from a hiatus in this world created by fantasy and reality dreaded by captivity and humor. At first I didn't understand until another guy in the story made clear the difference and what was supposedly going on. The only exception was fear as opposed to the common mistakes people deliberately use as a clause against the author and some of his accounts of the featured idea of storytelling from within a story. Yes on of the characters might have been transgenderd, I still think because of her beauty people didn't see it as they were given the beliefs. A character actually named My or Mi friend screwd someone of the same sex. But not to denote the cleaverness of the writer, ability. He used a lesbian against her will to love him through everything not so easily know in the make up of the conversion of the sexs. A woman from being only with women back to being with men. If you could actually tell. Crazy subject
     
  6. mac042434

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    Hi im thinking becoming transgener any advice
     
  7. okthen

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    I'd kind of been the same for years. Always played with "boys" stuff when I was younger, dressed in a more "male" way and just generally acted more masculine than feminine. Up until maybe a year or so ago I 'd just put that down to me not being a typical girl. I've always hated any sort of assumption based on gender, so I was absolutely fine with that. Within the last couple of years though I've started to feel more and more uncomfortable. Nothing felt right - my name, how I looked, that people kept on expecting me to have kids any day...nothing.

    I started looking around the internet - maybe what you were doing when you posted this - and looked at a few films on the subject on Netflix. One in particular, about Chaz Bono, just made it all fall into place for me. That was exactly how I felt. I watched it about a year ago and since then I've fully come out, and don't constantly feel like there's something wrong with me any more. Sure, some people (including family) haven't taken it too well, but the majority have been supportive. Far more than I was expecting. More importantly though, it feels right to me. I feel like I'm finally being myself after twenty odd years of pretending.

    My advice would be to keep on thinking and talking about it more. Can you picture yourself going shopping, collecting mail, going to work - whatever you do - as a woman? When I knew I could imagine myself doing all that as a man I had my answer.
     

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