Am I The Only One In A Sexless Marriage?

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by Stormysnowysunny, Aug 31, 2017.

  1. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    LIke a lot of people today, I met my 2nd wife on the internet. Not a dating site, or any hookup sites.... a politics forum.
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Yeah, I don't get the negativity. If they're suggesting my relationship or love of my woman is any different based on things we get up to in the bedroom, then that's just not very nice. I'm sure what making love to some, would look like two elephant seals to me. :p and I ain't here saying nothin'. I won't beat anyone down at that. Ohhh but God forbid you adorn some whips, chains and ductape. That shits not on!

    Now what really goes on in the head space of the BDSM couple is generally stronger than the head space of others. There's every ounce of trust, which is far from the vanillas head space I can assure you and if they ever release statistics I can assure you in 3 groups alone, kink, open and vanilla, it'll be the latter group that has failed marriage status as inevitably, one half of the couple feels like they just aren't up to scratch in their sex life. Like we read so so often on social media.
     
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  3. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

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    I don't think anyone was saying that.
     
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  4. lmm00

    lmm00 Members

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    Yes! Thank you. That’s the point I was trying to make. If a couple wants to have slow, sweet love every night, great for them! If a couple wants to dress in leather and whip each other, great for them too! It’s ignorant to think that there’s only one way to have sex for a close, loving relationship.
     
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  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I hear ya. Wouldn't worry too much about it, one of the offenders couldn't score a root at a brothel anyway. Lol. Let em talk all they want, their hands will comfort themselves later
     
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  6. Driftrue

    Driftrue Banned

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    What they were saying amounted to that. If someone is told their sex is dumb compared to real, true love sex, then it's excluding the idea that perhaps it is both.
     
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  7. Running Horse

    Running Horse A Buddha in hiding from himself

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    Don't worry OP or any others who miss the good times. I'll die ol' & alone long before any of you......
     

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