Am I lesbian, bi or straight?

I am confused at the moment, though I believe I am lesbian. My psychologist classified that I am not lesbian unless I have an urge to have sex with her. Currently, I dislike men and only befriend gay/bisexual guys, as I believe they are nice and won't go past the friend-zone as I fear in a platonic friendship with a straight guy. I find guys attractive, but I had very few crushes on them. I check out girls a lot when I am at the mall, and blush at the super-cute/attractive girls. I want to kiss, hold hands and go on an adventure with a girlfriend if I had one. However, even if a hot/cute straight guy wanted to date me, I might refuse. I cannot have sex with him at all, I cannot accept it. However, if I WAS a guy, I would be gay and sexually active, bedding and dating only men. This is really strange. Am I asexual? I do sometimes feel nervous around attractive men/women, but I only get straight-out turned on by yaoi (guyxguy) things. I am a yaoi fangirl!

Now, I don't know what the future holds for me. I am repulsed by straight men, and sick of them being sexist. Hell, one even asked me if 'pilot' meant the lady serving food on the back of the aircraft. Dafuq. Also, I don't trust straight men, they always seem to be looking for something more than a platonic friendship. Also, they look up porn too much and are almost always perverts and homophobics. I hate homophobics by the way :/

 

Doesn't really sound to me like you are confused. You seem to know what you want, just not how to classify it.

 

It sounds like u just are young and discovering life. I say keep meeting new people and seeing how u respond to them don't try to label urself just live and experience

 

Your therapist told you what?! No matter whether you're lesbian or straight, you're not going to be attracted to everyone. That's bull. I'm a lesbian, and I'm into two guys, too. I hear, lesbians are more drawn to it, because it makes the ones that have been molested feel safe, as the guys are focussed on each other, not the woman. Then, other people tell me even straight girls get turned on by two guys. The world is so mixed up, I say, whomever you find to be with, make sure you enjoy it and that's all you can do.

 

...accept that you're a lesbian & start trying to talk to these cute girls at the mall...they may have the same feelings you do...who knows where it could lead...

 

fire you psychologist: being a lesbian doesn´t mean you have the urge to have sex with any woman you meet in your life. ask her if she knew she liked boys before having sex with one or if she feels the urge to have sex with every man she lay her eyes on (no matter how ugly they are), she´ll ask no! and tell her she´s not heterosexual then.... WTF.... if you feel like kissing and hold hands with a girl just give yourself the opportunity to live the experience and clear up any doubts about it. you should have sex only if you feel confortable and ready (more o less, first time sexual encounters are somewhat frightening and unconfortable). What is perfectly clear for me is that you don´t feel sexually attracted to men so..... a white liquid in a crystal bottle?...

 

Hi! You definitely sound like a Lesbuan to me! I don't understand why your psychologist would say your only a Lesbian if you wanted to have sex with HER though! That's quite inappropriate and out of line. You are a strong Feminist as well! So am I! You are right about men.. that's the way they most of them are. Sounds like you have made up your mind. You are not bisexual or straight because you are not attracted to men; physically and definitely not emotionally! At least you know what you want. Enjoy your life and good luck with everything!

 

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