Am I hurting this girl? Thoughts?

After reading this entire thread, it just sank in that he said she smelled him....dafuq.

 

Bro, I agree with chilling on the drugs for a while. You are bumping pretty frequently

But yeah man, otherwise just talk to her.. you don't need to go in for the kill, just scope it out and get out your own head for a while.. body language is great, but you actually need to be in conversation to pick up on most of it. Basing opinions on brief little encounters is like.. I dunno, reading a book with only half the pages in and saying you understand the book.
Also, it's kinda shit to just ignore someone. I'm not the most social dude in the world, but a little banter with a randomer every now and then is quite refreshing.

 

didn't read this thread. you're only hurting this girl if you're being dishonest with her.


if you care about her, give her the truth.

 

Where the hell do you work?

Also, can you get me a job there?

 

So... I never talked with her before (only asked her name) and just walked up to her and asked her if she would get something to drink with me after work and maybe have a chat....
and she said :No!

alright.. cool I thought. I guess a no is a No. I'm not gonna bother her again..
But as it turns out she actually didn't mean to say no. (facepalm)
She thought I will go back and ask her again and again ( the three times rule) and then she will say yes... but I didn't. I never talked with her again.




*sigh*...

 

What he doesn't consider, because it's gotta be about his sweet smell, is that maybe he stinks. Or maybe the coworkers know he's a dope fiend and she was just smelling for drugs and booze. Or maybe she had a momentary sinus issue.

Ironically, she could be sullen with you because she may feel that she hurt the poor lonely druggies feelings.

The overheard conversation: She really wants the black guy. We all do. Deal with it.

 

Lmao! Statements like these are exactly why I heart you lol.

 

Gendorf, for the sake of kokujin's mental health!!!: on what exactly did you base that she had this 3 times rule on her mind? Thanks in advance for explaining :2thumbsup:

 

1) not wanting other people to think you're gay is a fucking stupid reason to ask someone out.

2) turning someone down and then getting pissed off when they believe you and don't try again is a fucking stupid thing to do.

 

Honestly, she and everyone at work thinks you're a drugged up freak.
I mean, this whole story starts out with you talking to a co-working while tripping balls on mdma. And you don't think they know about your speed binge or your month of crazy? And gay is the rumour you're worried about?

She's was staring at you because of the same reason I occasionally take a good look of the crack-head I work with, because I'm curious and sad Sometimes you look to imagine what they would have looked like before the meth/speed/crack or any of the other drugs that left them looking that way.

 

did you dance the jig yet? I am telling you, it will work and then all of the people in your office will want you, male or female..come on man, don't be so lame