Am I cute? (Part 2 for me!)

Seasonal Anxiety Disorder? Three or more seasons?

Perhaps I should see a doctor ... I never heard about the seasonal one, but on my own, I've noticed that after my birthday in November, I always get extremely depressed for about two months ... then, Christmas comes along (and for the past 5 years, it's always been the worst day of the season, because something bad always happens to me on Christmas, even back when I did celebrate it), and then I'm depressed for another month or two until V-Day, then Spring rolls around and I usually end up recovering completely and being really happy during Spring. Anyone else have any parallels?

Also, Chubz:

Listen man, you are FAR from alone, at the age of 15. Yeah, there are always going to be the jocks who have had sex 20 times by now; you should try not to let other people's successes or failures interfere with YOUR life. Just remember, half of them are going to end up fucked up because of steroids, hard drugs, and all kinds of other crap. I didn't have a girlfriend myself until I was 17, and even then, it was a shitty long-distance relationship thing, and I ended up getting cheated on twice (don't know how I forgave her the first time, I'm an idiot), and haven't had any luck since. So considering I'm 3 years your senior, you're lucky. Don't sweat it.

If you're worried about the way you look, then get creative! I know that, a while ago, I didn't really consider myself to have a "me" part. Instead, I was a synthesis of all of my friends; I didn't have anything about me, I didn't even have a personality when I was alone in my room. I was just a person who was efficient, and that stemmed from the fact that I've been programming computers since I was 11. In fact, for at least 2 years, that's all I did; come home from school, program on a lonely computer, eat dinner, program some more, sleep, get up 2 hours early, program some more, go to school. That's how it was for 2 years, for me, and I haven't got that much to show for it. And I noticed how I always acted differently when I was with different friends; that's how I got the idea of "synthesis" in my head, like I was a shapeless form.

It took a good friend of mine to show me a single thing about me that was unique about me, and since then, I've worked on it to no end. I've always been the biggest advocate of honour, chivalrie, and valour, and when my friend pointed out that none of my other friends had this quality, I was pretty shocked. Since then, I've discovered, well, my true self, and I'm defining my whole new style; I'm actually considering, right now, on doing a duality theme with my body; theming one side of my body with a European medieval theme (shoulder tattoo of a claymore sword and a shield with a Celtic knot on it, and some kind of nifty medieval earring, I haven't decided which yet), and the other side with a Japanese medieval theme (shoulder tattoo of a katana and a Japanese cherry blossom tree (aka sakura), and an earring made out of bamboo).

You really just have to find out exactly what your style is. For me, it's the medieval theme. For you, it's probably something different. It may take some time, but it's important to define who you are, and then make yourself look like it. If you go through life with a generic haircut, generic clothes, and generic mannerisms, then it's only expected that you're going to be a generic person with nothing special to offer someone else. That's why you've got to define your own sense of style. =)

So don't worry about it too much, really. Every dog has his day, as the saying goes, and I'm sure yours hasn't come just as mine hasn't. But, you know what, if you prepare for it, then the chances of it happening are a lot better, methinks. Just find out who you are, and make that your priority, and then, like in Tetris, all the other blocks will just start falling into place. =)

Balance and harmony, man. Good luck.

 

Seasonal Affective disorder.


I am there. Christmas is the worst.
Soon as the days start to get longer, I feel a sense of hope.....

 

OK, no more of these gay "am I cute posts" You know damn well the girls on this forum rate everybody an 8 or 10. If you want a true indication go to ratemybody.com

 

Don't you mean ratemyheadandneck.com ? Because in my photo, that's about all you see.

Oh, and thanks for the inspiration HikaruZero... but you didn't have to make a post THAT long!

 

Haha ... yeah, I have a tendency to do that, don't I? Just follow the advice, it will work. =)

 

agreed

chubz lose some weight and get a decent hair cut, im one of the biggest losers i know but that doesnt prevent me from getting pussy, its all about attitude

 

You're only 15, I wouldn't worry about it that much. I didn't go on a date until I was 20 and that one date turned into a wonderful relationship. You're not unattractive, but just don't worry so much about it.

 

so you rfirst date was this year?

anywya, chubz, get a life, and when you find a girl, make sure not to get too attatched or show her too much affection! its a common mistake from guys in your position and it drives chicks away
just be yourself, say what you want to say, and youll find the right person.

though you also have to get your ass out of your seat and maybe meet girls? i mean cmon, your only friends are on the internet? you arent living a proper life!!! human beings are not made to be hermits. dont become some hermit

 

"get a life" Says the guy with 3500 posts.

 

It is truly a real thing. I lived in the sun belt (Texas, Arizona, So. Cal.) all my life until ten years ago. I couldn't believe the difference in the length of the days and nights here seasonally! Summer days are too long and winter days are too short. And it's like being a bear, I'm starting to come out of that hibernation feeling. LOL

 

what did you want to hear man? No, you're never going to model for abercrombie? So what, neither am I. How bout that shit, we're just not with 'the beautiful people."

and so what. I walk to my classes, and I'll see some of those 'beautiful people' and it really just doesn't make a difference to me.

you won't belive me, and that's fine. BUT, most girls aren't so much hung up on looks. Some are, sure. But that's not the kind you want to date anyway. And let's be honest, guys like us aren't going to get to date the 'hot' girls who just want arm candy. That ain't us. Most girls are looking for personality, for a caring nature, somebody they can relate to, somebody to listen to them. A guy to be there for them, somebody they can relate to.

Sorry man. We just ain't pretty. But until you figure out that's about the least important thing, you'll be stuck without the dates.

 

please seperate yourself from the modle look of human

 

Firstly, be nice to Shad. I like her.

As far as all womyn rating guys an 8 or 10, not true. Your attitude makes you less attractive.

You asked what you could do, and I second what some of the others have said. Your hair doesn't look very nice at that cut. Your facial hair is goofy looking. There are grooming based things that can make you much better looking. Better exercise and diet!

I like natural guys, but let's face it: Not all of us look gorgeous naturally. Ask attractive guys if they have "secrets." I think several cute guys on the forum include LostDog, StonerBill, and Hikky. Also, the "woe is me" attitude while snapping at others won't get you a girl anytime soon.

There's lots of time to find someone, but you'll never have anyone worth being with if you don't alter your attitude. You asked for womyn's honest opinion, you got it.

 

kudos!!!

 

whats wrong with glasses???

 

lol omg bro that pic of u is so f'in funny, your facial expression is priceless, ur funny dude

 

LOL ... Trotsky, the poster in the back of your picture, is f'ing awesome. =D

Man, I should really start working on that sociology paper that was due yesterday ... x_X

 

Ok, just read all the thread...finding it strange that you would want to ask something like that. Other people's opinions don't matter, as long as you are happy in yourself, know you are a good person, have good friends (whether they're on the net or in your local town) people's perspectives really don't come into the equation. You're only 15, you've got years ahead of you to have girlfriends and the issues that go with it, believe me we're really not all that great

Keep smiling hun, take everyday as it comes and it will happen

 

ha ha, dude your advice fucking rules

 

jhaha i just realised his screen name is 'chubz' like .. chubbyt.. im too stoned for this hahaha

hey thjat idiot said that ive got no life caus ive got lots of posts? what a mofo