Am I consumed by my sexual feelings?

I am a 27 year old male. I am so consumed with sexual thoughts, that I think it interferes with my normal functioning.

I have a goal to have sex with a woman of every ethnicity on the planet. That means white, black, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, Arab, Persian, native American, and Australian Aborigine.

I am able to find all of these ethnicities on escort sites locally, except for Australian Aborigine. I am even considering paying thousands of dollars to fly to Australia where brothels are legal to find an Australian Aborigine woman to have sex with...

And the worst part about it is that I'm not even any good in bed, and when I have sex, it's like "okay this wasn't even worth it." But at the same time, I can't think about anything else.

The other day, a woman was telling me about how her dad died in an accident when she was 8 years old, and I truly cared and listened to what she said, but at the same time, I was thinking "You're hot, I wish I could have sex with you."

Should I seek a therapist?

 

I did too many hallucinogens when I was younger, and this is when my "manic" sexual thoughts started...

 

sometimes it sucks having a penis.

 

Sounds fairly normal. Seek a therapist if you want, but remember, actions after different than thoughts or fantasies.

As far as the 'not by l being good in bed bit'- go find someone you can practice with. Practice long, hard and frequently.

 

Practice is a great idea. Try asking your partner what makes her feel good. Do those things until she cums, or tells you to stop. I wonder if you know what you need sexually? Hopefully your partner will also try to please you...in ways that you may need to specify. Some think that we should just "figure out", but that just complicates things. Masturabtion is safe and disease free. You need to get things done and taken care of between masturbation, or sex sessions. I think you just have a quart too much testosterone...enjoy it!

Good Luck!!!

 

Actually I have substance induced mania.... LSD induced... I did like 1000 hits of acid when I was 21-22 and I still feel it. Oh well.... people always told me I was doing too much, maybe I should have listened...

 

more great hipforums advice... "just go find someone to practice with." if it was that simple, NOBODY would be bad at sex.

all at once?

 

No. Two at a time. lol.

 

There are women out there who want to play. They do not show up on your doorstep and ask you to sharpen your skills with them. You have to ask women for a date and begin there. It's not a slam dunk. Asking women for a date and being honest about what you are looking is something to be practiced also. You just have to do it.

I knew a guy some years ago who sat around inhis underwaer drinking chocolate milk and eating cinnamon buns. He couldn't understand why women weren't knocking on his door ready for a date. He would go out to a resturant and look at attractive women. But he wouldn't ask them for a date. He just sat there and stared at them. It was creepy. It creeped out his male friends who were with him. I can only imagine how it made the women feel.

It's not easy, but it is something you have to do if you want to achieve your goal. I suppose you could always pay a hooker. That might be a good idea. Think of her as a paid tutor. You pay her to teach you how to be erotic in bed. You certainly won't insult her.

Go out today and ask a woman that you find attractive for a date. Sure, she'll probably shoot you down, but what if she says, "yes"! Come back and complain to me about it later. Good Luck!

 

Doc, I'm in the same boat. My sex drive is on overdrive. I don't discriminate on size too bad and color is never an issue. I see so many potential mates in my daily routines. I can't seem to be able to look at a woman and not start gauging how much I want to fuck them. I feel your pain.

As far as being not so good at sex, get real good at eating pussy. It can make up for it. I wasn't very good when I was younger but I could eat me some pussy.