Am I bi?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Topher1972, Jul 5, 2018.

  1. Topher1972

    Topher1972 Members

    I’m not sure if I’m actually bi or just sexually adventurous. I’ve heard that being bi means that one is equally attracted to both sexes and therefore can have feelings for and even fall for n love with either or. I prefer and couldn’t live without women but an turned on by a good looking cock and man ass. I have sucked cock and have had more be sucked by a man and really enjoyed it. I’m into pegging and solo dildo play but want the real thing inside me. My biggest fantasies always include a woman but I’d like to hook up with a man solo too. It’s not an overwhelming urge or something that gets in the way of or creates problems in life but rather a fun dirty little secret. Anyway, I’d love to hear what y’all think of this, men and women alike.
  2. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    I wouldn't worry about the "labels", if I were you. Perhaps you're pansexual, in which case you're open to a lot more than you currently assume you are. You just might still be heterosexual, only with some inclination toward a certain level of male sexuality. You like what you like. Develop a sense of peace with it.

    All the best,

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  3. Topher1972

    Topher1972 Members

    Thanks Alternative. That helps. I’m not really concerned with labels, just curious. It is what it is and it’s all good.
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  4. Wobblybobbly56

    Wobblybobbly56 Members

    I was reading something recently, about how many species of animal enjoy same sex coupling. I think humans are the only species that has a name for it..
    Love is love, and sex is sex.. I blame religion for all the discrimination regarding sexuality..
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  5. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

    There are 2 kinds of people in the world bi and liars. IMO everyone is bi to a certain degree even one percent and on up.
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  6. Darkheart88

    Darkheart88 Members

    You're bi as fuck
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  7. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

  8. Toecutter

    Toecutter Members

    Your theory can be proven accurate at prison’s,
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  9. Barry Mandelay

    Barry Mandelay Members

    There's no doubt about it. I'm Bi-sexual. Yep, I have sex at least bi-monthly if not more often than that. Sometimes I'll even buy sex so I can remain bi-sexual and proud of it, by damn.
  10. LowHangers

    LowHangers Members

    Labels, labels, you shouldn't worry about them. Just enjoy what both a woman and a man has to offer and provide.
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  11. Escierto

    Escierto Members

    I was chatting with my girlfriend this morning and for some reason she had her phone up close to her face. They are in lockdown over there for a couple of weeks so she has been letting her facial hair grow.

    Anyway, I could see her facial hair on her upper lip and on her jawline and it was really making me horny looking at her. Which seems very odd. I was really wanting her to fuck me. She’s never a guy to me but she was definitely looking more masculine with the facial hair - at least for her. Why would that make me horny for her to fuck me?
  12. Boshcak

    Boshcak Members

    I feel much the same, but for me women are more... "complete" in sexual attraction? E.g. I generally immensely strongly is attracted sexually to women. I can feel emotionally attached to a woman, and sexually attracted, and I can feel love for a woman.

    But NOT for a man. With men (I'm male) I sometimes find myself thinking about their penises and their scrotums ONLY. As in only that - the thought of hairy legs, beards, etc actually make me want to throw up. I find thinking about or seeing another man's penis come erect and then seeing him orgasm and ejaculate his semen strongly arousing, but not as much as seeing a naked woman or anywhere near the enjoyment of making a woman orgasm.

    So its all different for everyone. Ignore sexual labeling. It is only "bi" if you want it to be.

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