Am I Being Used?

Learn to read? She doesn't pay SHIYAT. The State does. Having me around would give her an income (mine), and a housemaid (me) and a babysitter (me) and she can make some excuse (my medication kills my sex drive [I have never heard of anyone losing their sex drive due to the medication she takes, and that is not a listed side effect anywhere I have looked]) so she doesn't actually have to sleep with me.

I think it's obvious this bitch is just using me. The last week I was there (yes I left thank God) we barely even talked, she just went on and on about HER needs. Selfish user. And I'm a bad guy for wanting to at least get a piece out of it?

Wooohoo I'm glad I don't know any of you chicks IRL.



EDIT: Anyway, she's just an example of a chick (and a desperate one) who was dangling the possibility of pussy in someone's face (had me get tested, had me go buy condoms, etc) to give them an incentive to stick around and give give give. Sorry I don't play that game girls. Sorry you can't take advantage of me.

 

But...you don't have a job so how is she getting your income?

I'm glad you left. She deserves better than you.

 

^^tbh, i agree

to the op, you and the femme in question can both find people better suited to your needs. by teh sound of it you may want to get a job and make some money for that fun prostitution thing youre looking for, but, uh, yeah. sorry, but i have tons of sympathy for women who lose their libido due to health issues (like i currently have, yippee. let me tell you it SUCKS to not want to fuck the shit out of your bf

 

And just to add, I know from first-hand experience that certain types of drugs kill the libido, as do things such as chronic pain, depression, anxiety, etc. I also know of meds that kill men's libido's and trust me, I know it's not fun being on the other side of it, either.

I hope you find what you're looking for, though.

 

What's the difference between going out on a street and paying a woman ($$$) for sex (mmm) and take a woman out ($$$) in the hopes of having sex with her that night, or some night soon after (mmm)?

I don't see much difference. You're spending money on a chick to get laid. The only difference really is that with a prostitute, you're guaranteed.

Do women actually expect a man to do what they want if they never have sex with them? lol Reality check please.

I hope I find what I'm looking for, too. An honest chick who's upfront and doesn't play head games. For the sake of WOMEN, I hope that exists. Unfortunately, in 23 years I have found 0 women fitting said description.

 

Try being honest with them too. Just explain that the main thing you want is sex and you don't mind paying for it. I'm sure somebody will understand.

 

if it makes you feel any better, there's plenty of men who expect the same.

 

Confused One,
the fact that you don't know the difference between a ho and a gf would mean that you got what …0 seduction skills, cos that's what it takes and not $$ or favours to get sex from a gf. There are lots of honest, upfront girls who don't play head games but once you bring up this "sex as payment" bs that'll land you in the dog house faster than you can wink an eye, no matter what you've done for them.

Look she's too sick for sex in more ways than one and you don't wanna go there, you may think you do but believe me, you don't. I don't think she was "dangling the possibility of pussy" to you just that she thought about it and obviously came to the conclusion that it would be no good. You don't want to have sex with someone who's libido and orgasmic ability is compromised unless you've got potent love-making skills to help her overcome it, which you clearly don't. She'll end up resenting you and it'll come back to you sooner or later so that you'll still find yourself outta there. On top of that you may even get herpes.

The real flaw in your actions was doing those favours in the hopes of getting sex, it doesn't work that way and is of itself head games, seduction skills will get you a lot further than that. It was your choice to do those favours, don't resent all women for that.

 

lol Yea. You're pretty dumb if you think a dude is gonna get with a chick and never think about making it with her? Riiiighto, okay.

I wasn't doing this shit TO get sex, but once she brought up that we would NOT be having sex, AFTER she had me get tested... like, okay, THINK girl, don't defend her just cuz she's a "sick" woman.

 

whatever...move out then.

 

I did like a week ago.

 

problem solved.

 

man you've got it wrong, I already told you...

this is evidence that I DON'T think that a man is never gonna think about it. It's right there, post #20, look it up. You've got the wrong approach with sex and women.

Enjoy bachelorhood.

 

Haha it's funny how ya'll have to assume I don't have an active sexlife.

 

i'm not assuming any such thing...i know you're a little slut.

 

agreed completely


my boyfirend doesnt buy me shit before we fuck, he doesnt stuff bills into my wallet before i suck his cock, etc. i dont expect him to pay me for sex. a prostitute will. i expect him to LOVE and RESPECT me before he has a snowballs chance in hell of getting into my pants.
seriously, if you just want a fuckbuddy go online to adultfriendfinder or some shit and make your intentions clearly stated. hell, find a sugar daddy site wher eyou say youre willing to exchange money for sexual favours, its got a better chance than this whiny childish bs youre pulling

 

Yes... but now I want to balance having an active sex life WITH a relationship... but I just can't seem to find any girls that want the long-term that have an active libido.

 

how long you been looking? 2 months? lmao

 

Quit trying to rush things and get to know a person. When you feel happier doing something for them then receiving yourself, you have found the right one.

 

dood, i know your bein honest an shit,but if you act like you type,its pretty crass. most women dont like that level of bluntness.

also,didnt you say somethin about no job? that may help..