Always been the kind of man who prefers a straightforward romantic relationship. You know, that, breakfast in bed, romantic night with some wine & roses over a candlelit dinner, gentle kiss to wake her up kinda man. Never been interested in stuff like BDSM, cosplay, tickle torture, etc. Can't even understand how people get turned on doing those sorts of things. Sex wise I prefer a more straightforward approach or if I'm feelin' real passionate a pin to the wall straddling one. Is this not the kind of thing women want these days? Hell if I know.
All sorts of women out there who will fit what you're looking for. The older we get the more certain we are of what we're looking for. A lady is gonna come along and you'll be doing that missionary thang all night long!
Well I certainly hope you're right but my question was more along the lines of do I sound like a boring partner. I'm gonna be back on the market soon & I would like to know if I need to spice myself up some. My ex claims I'm the most boring man she's ever slept with
All due respect, fuck what your ex said. You're you, if a gal don't like it she can go pound sand. I mean it's not like we're talking about legitimate faults here.
No, you don't sound boring at all. It's what you like. I don't know all you're about, certainly, but there are women who will be into what you are. I think that you might experiment more with the right person, too. Maybe you and your ex were incompatible in other ways, and it carried over into your sex life. Have hope
Did she say that while you were together? Or after when she was pissed, bitter and trying to hurt you?
She never came out directly & said it when we were together. The sex just kinda petered out. She's always been into the rough stuff & I'm not. She finally did voice her opinion after the breakup
I'm just saying your ex was emotionally abusive. Dwelling on her opinion of you regarding how you are sexually speaks to the effect she had on your ego. Which is understandable from a psychological inasmuch as it's perfectly natural... But there are tons of women out there who you're gonna knock their socks off. You've mentioned areas where you were legitimately in the wrong, and in those areas it's worth taking stock about what to do to improve... But this? Nah I don't think so.
Sounds like you two might have been sexually incompatible. It happens. It's no one's fault, and it certainly doesn't make you "boring."
